I'm new to the hobby, and am not interested in heavy BDSM.  But, I'd love to find a woman to spank.  Nothing extreme, just playful, leading to FS or HE.

Any suggestions for finding one?

It's been my experience that almost all women enjoy a spanking, unless they are very, very Dominant and never submit to anyone.  The internal rocking sensation from a spanking can almost/sometimes bring them to orgasm without any other foreplay.

We had that previous thread that discussed the difficulty of finding "hybrid" providers . . .  not all escorts offer BDSM services, and MOST BDSM providers don't provide sex, especially in a pro dungeon setting.  You might have better luck asking an escort that interests you if she'd be up for some light spanking, and perhaps tack on a gratuity/extra fee for her offering that.  That said, I'd be remiss if I didn't mention that we have some very lovely ladies on this board (submissann is fantastic, by the way!) who ARE hybrid providers.

If you are new to the hobby, do you know the rules about spanking?  I had a previous thread with a lot more info/ideas, but the most important thing is to start by finding your submissive's/bottom's tailbone and staying at least a few inches below that area.  If you spank the tailbone, you could cause a serious injury; otherwise, spanking is pretty hard to screw up as a Top/Dominant.

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I don't know how to find the threads you mention.  A search on "spanking" shows a few old posts, but nothing to orient a newcomer to this particular aspect of the hobby.  I'm definitely not interested in heavy BDSM, dungeons, etc.  Just some fun with spanking in a hotel room or a provider's incall place.  Advice?

Here's a primer that I gave another newbie on how to do a spanking session.  Hopefully, you can figure out the sexual part of the session on your own!  ;-D

with clothes on, or skirt up or panties down and bare bottomed.  It's all good.

i love when the Spank-er puts on different gloves too.  Rubber, Leather or bar handed, it feels different.

Please give me a spanking!!!