I have recently spent more time tying that being tied. I love s lady either blindfolded or not on her back spread eagled, pillow under her ass I love to use the combination of fingers and vibrators that has been shown to be most exciting for her, I love to kiss her dnd whisper in her ear. I love to begin slow stimulation of hot best spots th things I have learned are her bottoNs; (clit, g sPot, aNUS or some combination. I LOVE TO to whisper as I bring her to the very edge OF CLIMAX then stop and talk SOFTLY TO HER making her calm down, breath deeply come down and when SHE IS JSUT BACK IN CONTROL OF HERSELF start again. bringing hr over and over to the edge until she finally cannot longer bear it as has the climax of a life time straining against her wrist and ankles restraints.
For myself, I have no faVorite, it depends on what MY MiSTRESS WHO IS IN CONTROL WANTs TO DO. HOG TIED AND KNEELING BEFOE HER WHIle SHE GiVES ME AN Enema AND MAKES ME crawl before her begging her for relief as the cramps get worse and worse, On MY BACK SREAD Eagles AS SHE USES A DILOE ON ME OR SITS ACORSS ME SLAPPING ME WHIlE I TRY TO DO MY BEST ORaLLY AND she SQUEEZEs OR SHOsKs MY TESTICES IF to for encoura me to perform the ways she wants What ever pleases and makes clear I belong to her for that moment.
(forgive the typing I just woke up.)
That enema life though, I feel you👀👀👀😍
Shibari has been a hobby of mine for just about ever, and I've been tying up my friends for much longer than it was ever a sexual thing (or was it? Lol). The more ambitious the better, I can loose hours on it. Unfortunately, most subs don't have the patience necessary to be truly transformed in that way, particularly in professional sessions. I'm a part of several rope groups in my area where we think with like minds 
When I'm the one being tied, I also like to try ambitious designs and suspensions, but unfortunately sometimes the mind is willing while the body is not, lol. Gymnastics left me with a bad shoulder, so hogties and anything with my arms raised behind me gets painful after 20 minutes or so. Such a shame, I love hogties :/
Standing, such as on St Andrew's cross, is my favorite, but with heavy suspension cuffs on the wrists in case you make me weak in the knees 
~Mme X~
...any position that makes me feel totally helpless and exposed. Spread eagle on the bed...face up or face down, suspended (with proper support), hogtied, etc. The trust has to be there first, in order for me to totally relax, but once trust is established and I know my limits will be respected I like maximum restraint and vulnerability!
Yes, I love being tied down (preferably restrained with leather cuffs) either spread eagle with pillows or wedge under ass or with my legs tied apart but behind my head. As others have said, the more trust you have in your partner, the easier it is to relax your body and let yourself feel more vulnerable. I haven't had a good flogging session is a while....sigh. And being choked while restrained or held down as the magic wand speed is mercilessly increased....oh my, I feel a little wet already...mmmmm...
Amber
..but I truly relish being tied up to a St. Andrew's Cross so one can have uninhibited access to all the regions of my body that crave attention and pain.
I'm always grateful for a hookup to a private dungeon space where one exists for some of the cities I travel to since I obviously can't lug one around. 
I love being restrained standing up so all parts of my body can be accessed
-Devorah
