I have had several calls from gents wanting "small penis humilation". Honestly, I am clueless as what they are looking for. I offer sensual domination, and state clearly in my ads that I am not going to humilate or inflict pain. Still, I get these requests. Then I start to wonder if I am missing the boat. So, here I am, asking those more experienced to first, define the said request, and also please tell me the psychology behind it? Are these guys who have small penises, or large ones and want to be belitted because of it? I really don't understand.
Mucho appreciate your input.
Clair Jordan Not a Dom...a GFE who really likes to be in control!! Luv the tie and tease...
I gets lots of it on my phonesex line, only sometimes in person....
Its exactly what it sounds like pretty simple...sometimes related to cuckold and bbc fun too...should be pretty easy to find online info...
It falls into a couple categories, strict denial versus guys who are "pathetic" versus guys who like to see you with "a real man" like a personal porno...or guys to like to share
I would say it is a lot of verbal humiliation. You could do things like grab it and show him just how small he is. More fun would be to do it in a role play context. That way you could degrade him and tell him the man that like to see on the side is so much bigger and that you can't possibly be satisfied by a guy that small. Things along those lines. Since you are a GFE who likes to be in control, you could give him some oral, then stop and say how easy it is because he is so small. I think I gave you some ideas to start with. Good luck, SC
Heres more ideas:
- Let the dude penetrate you and ask, as he's humping you, "is it in yet?" - Tell him to undress and examine his body, caressing him throughout, then when getting down to his peen, ask him, deadpan, was he missing something.. - take your high heels and compare/contrast with his peen.
ohhh, you call THAT a penis? HAHA, that's not a penis! My pinky finger is more of a penis than that. Awww...what do you even do with that little baby peewee worm dick? Are you sure you weren't actually born female and that's just like an overgrown clit? Eeehehehe! Gosh, it must be so embarrassing when you date a girl and she see's it for the first time and just busts up laughing. Etc, etc, etc.. it's mostly verbal - just letting the insults fly... just go for it - anything you can think of - can't really go wrong, hehe.
But yes, it's definitely a humilation thing and you have to be into humiliating someone to really get into it.. I love me some real humiliations whores
I think the psychology behind it is that being humiliated/embarrassment is such a strong emotion that it can be used to reach "subspace".
I recommend doing some of your own research by reading. 50 shades of gray, or BDSM 101 are both great books. I google ?'s I have instead of asking here on public boards. Google is your friend.
Everyone has their own personal reasons for their kink.
Humiliation, even verbal, is a line I have not crossed. The thing is, this request keep coming up! So I will venture in, see if it is a fit for me. Thank you all for your input. The suggestions/verbals are great. Play safe everyone!! Clair
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