I received a very interesting invite to a class to be held in a dungeon.  
I have avoided humiliation scenes because I simply do not understand the psychology behind it, and it is not my nature to be mean or humiliate.  However, this invite really stirred something in me- curiosity, most def; and a desire to push my own envelope, as well as business practices.  

Things that make you go hum...

Anyone have any info/input on the fetish or Ms Kali as a Practioner?  
Appreciated.

Clair

Take the class! Many people could debate on the psychology behind it but either way it will benefit you and could possibly awaken an undiscovered part of your sexual self.

Hi Clair!

I get a LOT of request for guys to be humiliated and for all different reasons.  I'm in a similar mode.  I do just fine with BDSM play, and the silkier side of dominance, but I'm just not into humiliating anyone.

It's really something that I just don't wish to do.  I, personally, feel that life is tough enough and often, well, I have to reach inside for something to happen and that is a place that I don't wish to visit.

So I, too, would be interested in these type of classes if for no other reason than to develop an understanding of this particular need.  

I've found weekend workshops like kinkkollege, in Chicago, offer a variety of classes to teach different things.  I would be more inclined towards something like that, than just taking a class that focuses on one thing.

To answer your question, though, I'm not familiar with Ms. Kali except for the name sounding familiar.  I'm hoping for more replies!

Sincerely,
Elisabet

I didn'[t make tis class, and I was not aware of kinkcollege in Chicago- that's perfect for me, because I spend a lot of time there.  I will also be going to NYC each month, as I am moving back to the east coast in may, and I know there are a lot of resources in the City.
I am very curious, as I wish to expand my BDSM biz beyond Bondassage ( which I absolutely love)
and another reason for expansion is to learn more control techniques.  I seriously adore being in control, in whatever aspect.  My sexuality has gotten to the point to where I am not interested in playing unless I am in Control!!  Not surprising for a mature, sexy woman who has had a lot of lovers and only dates successful men.
Are you Elizabeth Whispers?  if so, we have been communicating a long time, since the Demi-Monde days!!
I will let you know if I hear of other interesting educational offerings, and pls do the same.
Sending you a PM now.  
Thanks for jumping in!!!
xoClair Jordan
aka Bossy Bitch

I would love to get more involved in scenes like this. I'm trying to hone my "mental fuckery" as I like to phrase it. How does one step into this type of training without getting the door slammed into their face? I've tried reaching out to people before with either a "eff off" response or no response at all.  

TIA
~Justina Carter  

I sometimes really enjoy humiliation, especially receiving a golden shower but being "coaxed" into doing and saying things (wearing panties, asking politely for a golden shower or a strap-on) and then teased when I give in. I would guess it comes from being teased/led on by girls in high school and being too shy/inexperienced to date them. I would feel both turned on but also humiliated and I guess that's how fetishes are formed. Flash forward, I'm very confident but that little itch remains and I like to scratch it.  
I'm sure some guys love pain and being called worthless and there are plenty of Dommes that cater to that. I wish more catered to softer humiliation

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