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Money: One of the Edgier Fetishes?
stickycummerbund 2 Reviews 444 reads
posted
1 / 13

Yes, though not in the professional realm.  As a submissive male I became connected a kinky woman at my workplace through a very, very random set of coincidences via CL.   Anyway we both had unmet kinky needs.  One of the scenes we would work out was a pay for play kind of thing.  We would meet at a private location.  She would come right out and say "Do you have the money"  I would hand it over, she would count it in front of me.  Make a few snide comments about having to pay for it.  Drop to her knees take care of things.  Stand up smile and walk out, shaking her ass saying pleasure doing business with you.  We did several variations on this.  A few times we reversed roles.   I would get a text with an offer to hire me.  I would go over, lock the door, service her then leave with lunch money.  Oddly the amount exchanged in the end did not add up to much as we swapped roles often.

For me it was the taboo of talking about it.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 541 reads
posted
2 / 13

and run off with half your money, plus alimony, count?

FTMZacharyPrince See my TER Reviews 440 reads
posted
3 / 13

...on whether you liked it or not!  ;)

Posted By: mrfisher
and run off with half your money, plus alimony, count?

Holly See my TER Reviews 487 reads
posted
4 / 13

I have had several clients ask me what my turns on are....and when I have replied money I never really received what I thought was a positive response and felt embarrassed afterwards. But tbh the mere act of a man handing me cash to spend time with me turns me on. Receiving notifications that deposits have been made to my account also riles me up. I've fantasized about going at it on a bed of money & have been known to 'make it rain' on myself after having a good day moneywise.  Organizing my money and making deposits & keeping tbe slips is fun for me too!....weird? When a man pulls out his wallet I feel a type of adrenaline rush...prior to working in this industry I was the annoying independent girl who didn't neeeed your $....& wasted alot of time spending $ on men attempting to win them over for whatever reason until I found out how much more satisfying it was when the roles were reversed.  And, imo due to contrary belief Fin Dommes do still have to put in quite an effort for the tributes they receive from their pay pigs. In response to your last queation...extreme freak category? no.

mrfisher 112 Reviews 390 reads
posted
5 / 13

I'm not grateful she left.  Freedom isn't free, after all

ExoticX See my TER Reviews 412 reads
posted
6 / 13

Wow, thanks for the hot scene... I'm definitely going to have that one floating around my head for a while :)

As I've said so many times before, this lifestyle *is* my fantasy, and I'm enjoying the hell out of it. To be sure, financial kink is a real thing, and I've talked to quite a few ladies that cite that as their main motivating factor for being here. I've loved the idea of it for as long as I can remember, and I haven't even begun to get tired of it yet.  

There's so many ways it can go, and during the course of my time here I've managed to live out many of them. The power exchange aspects are the most obvious, and since I'm a switch I've enjoyed both - I could be subject to your slightest, sickest whim for a few hours after you simply lay down a stack of bills and tell me to work for it... or let you revel in the humiliating experience of having to pay dearly for the attention of a woman who normally wouldn't look in your direction. Both sides of the coin feel amazingly honest and liberating for me, lol.  

Even in more elaborate roleplay scenarios, my favorites are still usually centered around money - secretary/boss (especially when I get to beg for a raise!), ransom and blackmail (particularly the parts when we decide what you're "worth"). I used to see a man who literally would pay me to mug him repeatedly, and I am still shocked at how much I loved that.  

My ultimate fantasy though... auction. I'll leave it at that. It's probably never going to happen (again) outside of my private masturbation fantasies, but whatever :)  

Yeah, financial fetish is probably my main trigger point... and fortunately here it's easily satisfied.  

Somehow though, haggling is way hotter in theory than it *ever* is in practice, lol. Don't do that.

~Mme X~

Gypsy2184 See my TER Reviews 393 reads
posted
7 / 13

Ooooo never had a fantasy involving money before but now maybe I do...lol..

Posted By: AlysonParker
Earlier this week someone asked me what the edgiest/craziest/dirtiest thing I'd done as a submissive is. I think they were expecting something with extreme pain or multiple partners or really complicated bondage or fire or something. I thought about some pain or bondage focused experiences, but I think this was the right answer:  
   
 I had a sugar daddy who was also a dominant and we had a strong connection with lots of trust - which is important because this isn't something I think I could have done without those important pieces. I generally rule out humiliation/degradation because it can go so wrong so quickly, but we'd known each other long enough that it felt safe to play along the edges of those ideas. He'd also gotten out of me that the financial aspect of companionship is a huge turn on for me and has been since before it was legal for me to do this work. For whatever reason, that's a kink that has always brought some shame to me. Maybe because it makes me feel greedy. I don't know.  
   
 We had a routine of meeting weekly, early in the morning, at a hotel where he would be waiting for me in his room. This particular morning I arrived and it was clear from the start that he was in a fiesty mood. He made me strip in front of him while he remained clothed and then told me to get on my knees. He picked up a stack of money and told me it was my allowance plus some. Then he threw it all over the floor - and it really was everywhere - and told me I had to crawl around to pick it up. And he just sat and watched and made little comments as I hustled around on my knees to get all of it.  
   
 When I finally got all of it together and presented it to him, he pulled my hair to force my head back, pried my mouth open with his fingers, and shoved it, calling me dirty names and talking about how much I liked men giving me money and what that made me, etc.  (I know - money is filthy and gross but I was in such sub space I did not have time to think about my germaphobia), threw me on the bed on my stomach and finally took of his belt.....  
   
 I'm not one to really kiss and tell so I will leave the rest to your imagination, but it was quite an experience. I think I smiled for like, five days after that.  
   
 But in taking the little walk down memory lane that this question prompted, it made me realize that any fantasy involving money and sex really is considered edgy/taboo or not even *real*.  Financial submissives are mocked endlessly for being "pussies" for getting hard from buying women things (and let me tell you, there is no such thing as a free lunch and those gentleman make their dommes work very hard. Pussies they are most certainly not.). And I think women with buttons like mine are sometimes seen as gold diggers or just bad people.  
   
 Does anyone else share a fetish that involves money? Do you find that it leaves you in an extreme freak category all to itself?  
   
 

sobeslave 331 reads
posted
8 / 13
rachelsonoma See my TER Reviews 339 reads
posted
9 / 13

Hottest thread ever😛

hljockey 2 Reviews 271 reads
posted
10 / 13

Posted By: mrfisher
I'm not grateful she left.  Freedom isn't free, after all.  
   
 
You're NOT grateful she left. Is that a Freudian slip?

GodofCap 15 Reviews 352 reads
posted
11 / 13

I absolutely love P4P.  It's so erotic and pure to me.  My first experience was an uncle taking me (w/o my knowledge) to a massage parlor in Tijuana, Mexico when I was 16.  After two weeks of boredom in San Diego the last day was a trip to a massage parlor.  Upon my arrival there 20 girls who did a line-up for me and I selected one for a massage.  Little to my knowledge after the initial massage she inquired about extras.  I rushed back to my uncle for $30 USD to get a little more rub tug.  From that day I have been hooked.  

The eroticism of being in a five star hotel with a companion and having the financial abundance to play as much as my heart desires is an extremely motivating factor to me.  I love have the financial abundance to invest in this field because the financial investment is like basis points or pennies on the dollar to me.  It really provides the desire to attain more success to see truly what money can buy.

Great post as you are not alone in the eroticism of money as a kink/fetish.  
Posted By: AlysonParker
Earlier this week someone asked me what the edgiest/craziest/dirtiest thing I'd done as a submissive is. I think they were expecting something with extreme pain or multiple partners or really complicated bondage or fire or something. I thought about some pain or bondage focused experiences, but I think this was the right answer:  
   
 I had a sugar daddy who was also a dominant and we had a strong connection with lots of trust - which is important because this isn't something I think I could have done without those important pieces. I generally rule out humiliation/degradation because it can go so wrong so quickly, but we'd known each other long enough that it felt safe to play along the edges of those ideas. He'd also gotten out of me that the financial aspect of companionship is a huge turn on for me and has been since before it was legal for me to do this work. For whatever reason, that's a kink that has always brought some shame to me. Maybe because it makes me feel greedy. I don't know.  
   
 We had a routine of meeting weekly, early in the morning, at a hotel where he would be waiting for me in his room. This particular morning I arrived and it was clear from the start that he was in a fiesty mood. He made me strip in front of him while he remained clothed and then told me to get on my knees. He picked up a stack of money and told me it was my allowance plus some. Then he threw it all over the floor - and it really was everywhere - and told me I had to crawl around to pick it up. And he just sat and watched and made little comments as I hustled around on my knees to get all of it.  
   
 When I finally got all of it together and presented it to him, he pulled my hair to force my head back, pried my mouth open with his fingers, and shoved it, calling me dirty names and talking about how much I liked men giving me money and what that made me, etc.  (I know - money is filthy and gross but I was in such sub space I did not have time to think about my germaphobia), threw me on the bed on my stomach and finally took of his belt.....  
   
 I'm not one to really kiss and tell so I will leave the rest to your imagination, but it was quite an experience. I think I smiled for like, five days after that.  
   
 But in taking the little walk down memory lane that this question prompted, it made me realize that any fantasy involving money and sex really is considered edgy/taboo or not even *real*.  Financial submissives are mocked endlessly for being "pussies" for getting hard from buying women things (and let me tell you, there is no such thing as a free lunch and those gentleman make their dommes work very hard. Pussies they are most certainly not.). And I think women with buttons like mine are sometimes seen as gold diggers or just bad people.  
   
 Does anyone else share a fetish that involves money? Do you find that it leaves you in an extreme freak category all to itself?  
   
 

elainaamhurst See my TER Reviews 223 reads
posted
12 / 13

This certainly one of the bigger taboos in our culture. It is most certainly one of the biggest reasons that I choose to work in this arena. It is part of my fantasy/kink, whatever you want to call it. It's also one of the things that I am most nervous about sharing when people ask about why I choose this line of work. In the other areas of my life, I am quite successful, and I don't *need* the money that I earn here. The fact though, that there is a financial exchange, creates an immediate power dynamic that I love! I am a natural submissive in the bedroom, because I like exploring my edges, and this avenue of exploration really turns me on. I think that many of the men I see love that also......getting to dominate a normally alpha female.  
I also agree there there are some very big misconceptions regarding concerning what type of person engages in financial bondage play.  It is for these reasons that I have turned down a couple of sugar daddy offers. It felt to dirty for me...and I'm not sure why I made the distinction between that and 'regular' P4P.  
Anyway, thank you for bringing this up and creating a space for others to discuss the topic. Stay safe!

LukeAppling 3 Reviews 140 reads
posted
13 / 13

Sorry to be late in responding to this, but I don't check the TER boards too often.

Alyson, this is one of the hottest scenarios that I've ever come across.  If I were visiting a provider, knowing that she was actually turned on by the money aspect would be a huge turn-on for me.  I'm in your area so hopefully we can get together at some point.

In reality, I find the entire girlfriend experience thing to be way creepier than someone who actually gets turned on by the financial aspect.  As a customer, my biggest concern is that I'm paying someone for something that she really doesn't want to do, so your being honest about liking the financial aspect is a huge relief to someone like me.

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