If your submissive & claim to be a sub you should have no problem following simple instructions.  

Following orders should be apart of your routine.  

You should never disobey your Goddess.

If someone is submitting to me, I count on him to communicate with me what he likes, dislikes, fears, and dreads. I count on him to let me know what his boundaries are and to communicate with me about his headspace and well being.  

I don’t want unquestioning obedience, and someone who wants to give it isn’t the right fit for me. I also think defining submission in that way can create an environment where the sub is at risk for abuse.

Just a different perspective on this sort of power relationship. To me obedience isn’t part of my definition of a “real” sub;  I don’t have such a definition.

This post was a general statement that is directed at booking requirements.

As a lifestyle Domina with over 20 years of experience training submissive individuals I feel it’s safe to state if you claim to be truly submissive and refuse to book accordingly as instructed your not a real submissive in my personal opinion, especially if your continuing to contact me over the course of several years.

Caca 💩 shit or get off the pot.  

PSA - I am blocking you time wasters. I have a zero tolerance policy & it’s in full effect. No carrot danglers. I don’t need giftcards to put up with unwanted emails & meaningless chit chat. 💬 Book me.

Ah, yes. Someone who is serious about booking and about submitting, knows how to be respectful and compliant, as opposed to giving pushback or deliberately wasting time in order to annoy and get free attention.

Hello Claire,

I read you comments on submission(to you) as I do have a kinky and private interest to explore this side of me from time to time.  I reviewed your website and did not see any mention of this.  Let me know what you offer.  I will not be shy in mentioning my experiences and preferences.

Thanks

It’s on my website under “rates - special offerings”!  

“ Kink and Fetish

I'm experienced, skilled and open-minded. Domination/submission, bondage, roleplay, outfit requests and fetish play.”

Also just above that:

“ Consultation - 15 MINUTES

A more in-depth video or phone call to discuss any special needs, interests, kinks and fetishes, concerns or desires.”

This option is also listed on my Tryst ad.

In your case, we should start with a video consultation to discuss your interests. The booking form on my website is the best way to initiate!

Thank you