See, anything "torturous" would probably be a no, unless it was like me being tied down, with loss of control. Focres to cum type scenario I am open w/ ass slapping, some degradation, dirty talk & role reversal/taboo/dom-baby type of stuff just not like hard core pain. If that makes sense.
Let's say - kink.com is a fave site that I go to. Please check out what I mean
Are there any reviewers who review submissives on TER? When I read reviews of escorts who list bdsm in their bio, I never, ever, read anything about it in the reviewes. Is anyone out there?
thanks a bunch. It is strange how few subs are available considering how mainstream it all became with Fifty Shades of Boring. I loved your reviews and am interested in a couple of those you reviewed in particular Jenna and Teal. It also helps me describe myself to both of them by referring to your reviews with a footnote that I am a lot more vanilla than what you describe. Again, thanks so much.
I was just discussing this fact all my reviews are vanilla. I provide lots of kinky fun & TER is more GFE. The guys are shy to include in the reviews that I pegged them, or they sucked my strap on its odd. I wish more would be honest.
For me.. I am submissive. What I enjoy sexually is purely submissive in order for full enjoyment. BUT... I am also very weary of being JUST a BDSM companion because I feel when some people think "sub" they think pain. Degradation. Pet. I'm not into all submissive activities, I am OK with some soft & vanilla but it's not a preference... Tips?
It sounds like your submissiveness is more associated with a normal or vanilla sexual situation. When considering submissiveness on a bdsm board it would be much more then that. You should expect some level of impact play, bondage, perhaps some nipple torture and some humiliation/degradation.
Sex is usually included.
All activity is discussed and agreed to before hand.
I disagree. There is a very large spectrum of being a submissive. Many think they have to endure pain or torture to be a true sub. I'm not a pain sub..have been before not my thing. Tried it. Sensual BDSM allows for more primal and hands-on approach for power exchange. I would say most vanillas assume that being a sub means pain and being tied up. A good Dom or Domme knows how to dominate through words, glances and mental stimulation, not just physical force.
See, anything "torturous" would probably be a no, unless it was like me being tied down, with loss of control. Focres to cum type scenario I am open w/ ass slapping, some degradation, dirty talk & role reversal/taboo/dom-baby type of stuff just not like hard core pain. If that makes sense.
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