I was getting a massage from a noted GFE provider and they said I had an in-grown hair on my back, and would it be OK for them to try and dig it out.

For some reason, I said OK, and then they proceeded to perform surgery on my back for the next 30 minutes and in the process excavated a goodly sum of blood and puss which they giddily showed off to me.

I'm not sure the gal thought she was into being some kind of doctor dom, I think she was just a frustrated dermatologist, but whatever; I was wincing in pain most of the time by decided to go into macho mode and not even say boo about it.  Somewhere along the line, however, I began to notice that I was enjoying the whole operation - not despite the pain, but because of it.

I also found her fascination with this of interest to me as well.

She has since performed this "operation" on me a few more times, much to my satisfaction.

I used this as a stepping stone to venture out into gals who use riding crops and floggers on my back, the force of which I have them steadily increase.  So far no blood drawn, but one gal said that I'm almost up to a 7 on her 1 to 10 scale, which ain't bad for this mild mannered man.

I'm still just a tyro at this, admittedly, but I am looking forward to exploring it more.

(As for the gal who does the operations, sorry but I am under sworn oath to her not to reveal her name.)

Just wondering if BDSM is it a biological thing or it just comes out from getting bored from daily sex routine

I did not even know what BDSM was, but as a young girl...pre-teen, I was always excited seeing someone getting a spanking on a TV show or in a comic strip.  I started experimenting with fantasies in my early 20's, when I was dating my first husband.  My second (and current) husband was my first Master in my 30's.  The rest is history!

"the appeal of adopting an erotic role of submission, pain, or humiliation (or of inflicting those) can be understood through the abstract psychology of participants: that is, their thoughts, emotions, and sensations during play. These experiences, however, are much more than manipulations of thoughts and emotions—much of BDSM play has solid roots in both the physical structures of the brain and the neurotransmitters and hormones released by the stimuli of play. We have seen how BDSM utilizes symbols and abstract cognitive function during play. But studying the biological aspect of play reveals that not only do BDSM participants play with these archetypes, but with the oldest and most evolution-driven areas of the brain, using their conscious construction of psychodrama to tease the brain’s perception of and response to fear and physical pain into intensely positive and erotic sensation. BDSM players are neurobiological entrepreneurs, able to harness automatic and unconscious brain activity and utilize it for pleasure and personal growth."

Have fun

BDSM is an Art, and it takes years to MASTER.  I do not think I was bored of the vanilla routine, nor is it genetic.  You either enjoy playing kinky, or you don't.  I was introduced to the life-style during my College years.

My first exposure was as a spectator purely by accident. I was intrigued by what I saw. I went back on another visit and learned more from some very kind and experienced people. I screwed up my courage and gave it a try as a bottom in front of about 50 people. All it took was once and I was hooked. Exhibitionism, restraint, submission, and that wonderful endorphin rush; it was all there for me. I guess I was made for BDSM. As for the why, that is definitely a different discussion

We learned how to do knots.  Eventually, some of us decided to practice our skills on each other..  I, being more of a bossy type, ended up doing the tying..

It was also during this time that I realized that I enjoyed being watched..  Particularly when I used the bathroom..  Ha!

The rest is history...  

DP

When I(Jake)was a Junior in High School I was partying in the woods one night with some  friends around a campfire. Some other people later showed up, said they saw the fire and wanted to join us, 2 guys and 2 girls, they were older probably in their late 20's but they had 2 cases of beer with them so we let them join us. A couple hours later my friends left cause it was late( 1 or 2am). I was getting wasted so I stayed for more beer. One of the guys started a "spin the bottle game" with no limitations. About an hour later myself and 2 others were completely nude.Then one of the guys pulled out some rope out of the gym bag and set it next to the fire. Then I ended up blindfolded, and then made to lay down on my back in the middle of 4 trees. At this point I started getting the feeling this was planned all along but at this point I was too drunk to care or do anything about it. Next my wrists were bound and tied to two of the trees, then on the next spin my ankles were bound and tied to the other two trees.....

Hey don't stop when it is really getting hot!!!! Continue please

Nice story.... believe some doctors chose their speciality also not by accident ))

I wish I would of known you were in St Louis last week, I was there on Busn and had an appointment with a female provider. I would of loved to  have included Jake in on a Bondage session.
Yes, please don't stop at the point where you are naked and tied spread eagled between 4 trees in the woods, it's just getting HOT!!