So, when i first started, I had no issue giving golden showers. none.  they were my favorite thing.  

then one day, nothing.  not a drop. and i really did actually have to go.  i'd prepared for this.

Subsequently, I've not been able to "let go".

Any tips or tricks are really appreciated! you can feel free to respond here or PM me.  

Thanks in advance

if you have the receiver wear a toilet seat over their head, it might get you in the general mood to produce.

It seems to work that way in some porno-pee-pee videos I've seen.

Pop a bottle of bubbly, or let the what run to helpget you going.  I never have any problems peeing, or caca.  My caviar is the best!  Golden Showers are my ATF it is so natural.

Wine is always fine at a piss party & that is how I introduced my lovely twin Goddess Jezebel to the adult fun!

that might help move things along

K

Tickle the small of your back (better if you have someone else do this, but you can do this to yourself)
- close your eyes and relax.
- if near a sink or a shower, turn the faucet on.
- if wearing something very tight on your waist, take it off  
- RELAX and breathe

have fun

I've considered buying one of those "over the seat" toilet seats. I may just have to do that.

can't piss in any public rest room where the urinals lack big visual separation barriers.  I had it for a while and then it went away.  It's a self-imposed stage fright thing, if you have to do it you can't.  Don't recall precisely how it started for me, just one day had a hard time starting and got freaked, and the response fed on itself.  

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I used to be VERY pee shy - I still make jokes about being a piss shy piss fetishist. I've found that drinking a whole bunch of water or tea (caffeine is a diuretic) prior to pee play is helpful, obviously. Instead of holding it in preparation, I 'break the seal' and keep hydrating before and during play. This means that I'll be able to go several times in an hour for a few hours!

As far as letting go in the moment, that really can be tricky and I had to train myself to be able to. I went from living in a college dorm a few years ago and not being able to use the communal bathroom if other people were in it who might be able to hear me to where I am today. I practiced a lot with my girlfriend who is also into golden showers. It's a mental hurdle for sure - maybe start in the shower with the water running and move from there?  

I know you switch, so maybe another option would be to play submissive piss games where you're forced to hold it until you *can't* anymore - not healthy if done repeatedly but SO much fun, especially with bondage involved.

I had a photoshoot the other day with a fetish photographer who was taking photos of a g/s scene with just myself, and then with myself and a friend. A whole bunch of people were watching from the sidelines and I actually did get a serious case of piss shyness. (For reference it is seriously tough to pee while laying on your back). I couldn't do it by myself and I had to call my bottom over to put her face under me so that I felt comfortable to let go - which I did, at that point for almost a minute I had been saving it up for so long.

I've conditioned myself in really kinky ways, apparently!

And I absolutely relate to being a piss-shy piss fetishist.  Because damn it really turns me on.  I have zero issues in the shower- it comes down to pissing in places that "i'm not supposed to".  

I DID have a relatively successful piss session with my personal bottom the other day, and we're planning on incorporating more piss play into our scenes in the future.  I really love the idea of submissive piss play too.

Robin, thank you so much! I've got things to try. :

I'd love to be your plaything as you search to overcome your shyness!

feel free to get in touch!

My sissy bought it years ago & it allows me to take my time.  Relax.  Plus they get all the benefits below.  lol

And there's always p*ss pants (like the one I'm wearing in photo attached), for those that want to do something a bit bizarre in delivering their goldens.. less likely to suffer from being pee shy. Seats are fun, but when it comes to travel, unless it's the camping style chair (which I own), it's not very practical

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Trust me. Madame Patricia excels in this arena (and I have not savored you for quite some time, but the memories are still there)

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