Posted By: LeChiffre[/username...
What I believe Elizabeth is discussing is a subculture in the world of BDSM that has been growing a great deal over the last few years. They are known as "Ageplayers" or "Littles".
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While I don't pretend to understand age regression play -- and Elisabeth, maybe you can expand on this from your perspective to enlighten us -- I would assume that the appeal is being able to temporarily surrender your adult responsibilities and, for a time, have those loved and cared for feelings that you have as an "innocent" child.
I had clients in the past that wanted to do this and I really didn't like it at all and well, just wouldn't do it. And then one day, I was with this client and we really clicked. So ... I let him nurse. And then I tickled him. It was very sweet.
So I started to study it a little bit. And I've done a lot of experimenting in all different forms of this play.
I haven't yet put an actual name to it although many suggest that it's age play and the others that you've mentioned. For me, it's just "Mommy Play" for now.
What I have found so challenging about it, which is why I started this topic, is everyone (and this is true for all of BDSM) are just SO VERY DIFFERENT in their wants and needs. It's not like a regular escort appointment where a man is going to probably want some kissing, foreplay, oral sex and if I'm lucky, intercourse. It doesn't work that way.
Each person is completely different. I have found that most want a sensual aspect to the experience. A few do not. MANY want a punishment or a teasing type of element to this.
I am trying to figure out the best path to take to really present me as someone who sincerely likes this type of play without running off my vanilla client base, who most will think that it's yucky to the extreme.
Any thoughts? And my final thought is this ... for those who are concerned about this type of erotica, isn't the bond between mother and son just filled with emotion and a certain sort of tension anyway?
Elisabeth