Posted By: LeChiffre
As someone who has both given and received (and enjoys!) urethral sounds for years, a big +1 on RobinArdeur's comments. The single most important thing with this type of play is avoiding a UTI. The second is for the sounder not to let go, because the soundee's penis with involuntary contract and try to suck that thing up like a Dyson on full power.
As a sub/bottom/slave, if you wanted to be as safe and STD free as humanly possible, consider investing in a sounds kit that is only used on you and no one else. They run about $100. Relative to the cost of seeing a doctor and taking drugs to cure a UTI, that's cheap.
If that's not an option, it would be preferable if your provider was using an autoclave to sanitize the sounds. If you know anyone who has a tattoo business, they probably have an autoclave.
Assuming that the sounds are stainless steel and your provider doesn't have access to an autoclave, my suggestion is as follows:
SET UP A "CLEAN" FIELD
- Sounder washes hands with soap & water.
- Do hand sanitizer, too.
- Glove up (nitrile).
- You probably want a stainless steel tray or something of that nature as your "clean" field. Note that I didn't write "sterile" field, because we're not in a hospital.
- Use PDI Wipes to clean the tray in a concentric circle or use a Zamboni technique. Either way, you want to push the germs and bacteria to the outside of the tray. Don't be afraid to put a little muscle into it (chemicals + pressure = best results).
- Allow 3 minutes to dry.
- Cover tray with a barrier/dam/drape; put another drape on a clean counter next to the tray.
- Swap out for a fresh set of nitrile gloves.
CLEAN SOUNDS
- With the new (second set) of gloves, use a new PDI Wipe, as you did on the surgical tray.
- I usually set the sounds down on the clean barrier/drape NEXT to the surgical tray, allow to dry for 3 minutes.
- I then use a saline wound wash and paper towels to get the PDI juice (if there's any left) off of the sounds, and consider them "clean" sounds at this point in time.
- THEN they go on the surgical tray (on top of the barrier/dam/drape) - the sounds are ready to go
- You hopefully have a bunch of individual packets of Surgilube. Add those to your surgical tray, so that you don't have to reach outside of the "clean" field when you need them.
CLEAN THE PERSON RECEIVING THE SOUNDING
- Third set of gloves, wipe the tip of the urethra/head of the penis with antibacterial soap. Yes, this will sting a little, but not as bad as a UTI. Suck it up, buttercup.
- Apply some Surgilube to the head of the penis/urethra area.
(I'm assuming that it's a male being teased with this, but women can receive sounds, too.)
PLAY!
- Fourth set of gloves, lube up the sound generously with Surgilube and have fun!
- Just place the sound right at the tip of the urethra/head of the penis. If you start out with a smaller sound, let gravity take its course and that hungry fella will swallow it right up.
- Remember that in and out, left and right motions are fun!
- Don't be afraid to add more Surgilube if you are playing for a while.
- It's a pretty wild sensation to cum with the sound still in there, because you have to wait for it to be removed to see the ejaculation. It's probably the closest a man can come (cum?) to squirting.
POST-PLAY
Just repeat the CLEAN SOUNDS set as above with a new set of gloves (PDI wipes + saline wound wash).
NOTE: You will still need to clean the sounds yet again the next time you play, but you want to get the gunk off before you put them away.
Have fun!
