Just ask the gals you've already seen

Many times a review on this type of activity is not posted.  Frankly I only posted one such type of review, and was quite surprised when the gal all but insisted on it.  But with all of the others (and theses are the GFE "only" gals that you/I have seen) that I have played bondage games and such, no...I haven't and won't review those scenes.  But that does not mean that many of your GFE gals wouldn't indulge in this type of a request.  If you don't ask, you won't know.

And you will be VERY surprised just how many of the gals will participate in your "BDSM fantasy".

All you have to do is ASK

Correction Make That Ass Worship By Me On The Lady

I Do Not Want Anything In My Ass

I'm a little conflicted in my response to this . . .

There are certainly a number of BDSM services that an so-called "vanilla" provider can incorporate into your session with minimal risk of harm to the client.  Certainly, it's pretty hard to injure or kill a hobbyist via foot worship, body worship (except smothering), dirty talk/verbal abuse and spanking, but know that you are putting your fate into the hands of an untrained non-professional.  Someone who doesn't know the rules of safe play for spanking could spank your tail bone area and cause you some trauma, or they might not understand how to properly warm you up.  (Novices tend to start spanking hard immediately and in the same place, causing you to immediately "tap out".)  Face slapping might result in marks . .   for a lot of you married hobbyists, how do you plan to explain that to the Mrs.?

Referring back to the other thread, there is a little bit of "you get what you pay for" here.  If an escort has little to no training and you engage in edgier activities, there is a higher degree of risk for you (and possibly her).  An experienced Domme understands "No Go Zones" and a host of other safety protocols, so I would be EXTREMELY SELECTIVE about what I'd ask a regular escort to do as part of our session, and NOT venture into anything but the mildest forms of sensual domination with a newbie.

My two cents.

I Am The "Queen Of All Traits!"

I also, have an identical twin (Goddess Jezebel) & we play well together~

There has always been this funny little crossroad between the professional domme and the escort.  Dommes are always denying that they do any type of escort work and escorts will TRY to do fetish and BDSM work, but I see very few women doing that successfully in Dallas.

However, there are a few.  And I'm one of them.

Most "vanilla" escorts have a lot of experience in different things but are reluctant to hook up their name with BDSM because it scares off the natives.  So I'm in agreement with what someone suggested above.

Find someone who you like and/or trust and ask them a few pointed questions.  You don't have to be so graphic as to state, "I don't want something in my ass", just subtle clues.  Chances are excellent that she'll tell you if she's up to that challenge or not.

Good luck!!!
Elisabeth

I escort and I dom but like many girls I keep them separate for a couple reasons,...Let me give you some insight...

1. Guys contacting my dom site aren't allowed to call me, This is to cut down on WOT guys who just want to jerk-off on the phone. All appointments are through e-mail contact first.

2. Many advertising sites like Eros require that your Dom listing be totally separate from your escort ad..so I advise taking a look because the name or pics might differ but same girl. So Look for girls who offer both strict and sensual domination...or who have double lsitings

Cheers, BellaLABBW /Isabella Crush

This is where really reading a lady's site become important.

Those of us who do both have to be a little creative in directing people to the right places. We really dont want to scare off the 'vanilla" crowd.

When it comes down to things, asking your favorite lady a few selective questions may help...

I offer those services in ThE DC/NOVA area and in Philly/SNJ area. And it's available anywhere I travel too! This weekend i'm available in Tysons Corner Va. My girlfriend is with me too!

...blending the two worlds is my specialty. Unfortunately the issue previous posters mentioned is very real; sometimes it's necessary to read between the lines, drop hints or ask a few questions. There's a stigma against dommes, subs, and switches who engage in traditional escort practices and many hobbyists are a bit nervous that those of us with this bent will tie them up nonconsensually!

I'm based out of Virginia and North Carolina and do travel to the DMV area. As our interests are very compatible, I've sent you a PM.

Sabrina