Honesty!

Just be honest with yourself, and your Mistress prior to play & discuss limits!  Have an open-mind & be ready to have some real fun! lmfao! xoxo

(I know, that's my answer to everything. 8o)

Clear communication of limits and acceptance of limits for all people involved, clear play list, safe word and safe signal worked out and communicated, and a safe place to play.

Hopefully both people bring their joy and happiness to be there and be together.  That always adds a degree of hotness.  

and lube.  Lots of lube.....

hahahha

-- Modified on 7/17/2011 11:30:05 PM

I like being Large and in Charge.  My interest lie in light bondage, body worship, face sitting, CBT, light paddling/spanking.  As I continue to experiment, I am sure my interests will expand.  
The requests I turn down are; golden showers, ball busting, strap on or any anal play, or real sadism.  
For me it's a role play.  I like combining Edge play with sexy, loving erotic play.  Not for everyone, but I sure make a few guys happy!!