So I recently saw an awesome lady and she introduced me to her submissive side...  It was great and I found myself wanting more.  I am trying to figure out how to tell if a lady is open to being submissive since there is a certain degree of discretion when we first correspond.  Any suggestions?  Also I am in the northeast fairly often if this is relevant.

Most guys look for the keywords but I think for me, they read my reviews where I have been both Dom or Sub (been having more subbie encounters lately), but yes, women are now listing what they will partake in especially since it's becoming more on the normal side now. Hopefully, you find what you're looking for and if not, you can always come to the Midwest, I could use a spanking here and there! Take care

I am a true submissive in every sense of the word.  I can't tell from your review history exactly where you live, but take a look at the calendar on my main website: angie-summers.com for my travel dates.  Check out my BDSM website at the below link.  That calendar is not as up-to-date but will be as soon as I finalize all my travel plans.

With trust, I am a willing partner in submission

Look me up when on the east coast I'm more that welcome to assit you.

In addition to the great ladies (especially Alyson) that have commented here, check out www.theartofsubmission.com  
PM me for more details if you like.

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While TER profiles tell us that some providers offer S&M, it doesn't specify which and most I think are Dommes only.  Obviously we can tell if her nom de guerre is 'Mistress foo' or 'Lady bar'.  I have even seen some profiles that specify 'spanking' without specifying whether it is giving or receiving.