While different people may have different implementations, I think the description on the site probably covers it nicely.
My general experience? It's like BDSM without the SM. You are tied up, blindfolded and have headphones playing music, shutting off all outside distractions. Then, at it's core, it's an erotic massage. How the practitioner proceeds probably varies based on what she wants to do and a discussion you will have had first about what your limits are. For me, it was one of the most erotic experiences of my life. It's a good thing I was blindfolded, because while an anal hook is now one of my favorite toys, I don't think I would have felt that way had I seen it before she used it on me.
In order for a provider to offer "Bondassage (TM)", they have to be certified. Oftentimes, its sensory deprivation (blindfolding, noise-cancelling ear phones with white noise/ambient music), light bondage with ropes and/or cuffs, light, percussive play with floggers, paddles, and other impact toys. The point isn't to cause pain, though. It's to cause sensory stimulation. This percussive/sensory play is applied all over the body, and often times tease and denial is employed.
Think of it as bottoming 101, an introduction to BDSM. Or, you can think of it as a kinky massage.
Becoming certified in Bondassage with Jaeleen, the creator, in June of 2013 is one of the best things I have done for myself, and others, in a long time. It's an honor to be able to offer people the opportunity to go into deep relaxation while stimulating all the senses, ultimately providing a release in a mind/body/spirit fashion which rocks their world and resets their programming. I consider myself a temple goddess decompressing and recharging the modern day warrior before sending him home, or back to battle. Doing a session gives me great energy, esp. since I add a tantric approach to the body work, whereas I found straight escorting very draining by the time I switched gears over two years ago. Simply sharing my own experience.
While Bondassage is a patented sequence and carefully taught that way, All practioners add a unique spin which Jaeleen encourages. So you will never have exactly the same experience twice. It is very easy to research and there are at least 140 of us world-wide. I'm going to let Jaeleen know this thread has been posted so she can offer her insight. All I can say is the woman is a genius and I LOVE doing Bondassage!! xoClair Jordan
Some will actually incorporate at real massage in their as well. They are now certified practitioners who pay for someone to teach them how to tease clients. I was self-taught by researching online, watching videos & reading BDSM books. Every provider is different, but the schooling teaches all the same techniques to the providers who pay for this certification in hopes to increase their business & income.
I am a Certified Practitioner and a Global Trainer in both Bondassage® and Elysium by Bondassage®. I am based in Chicago, but I regularly visit: NYC (monthly) ... offer Four Hand with Ashley Paige of NYC Boston & Philadelphia (every other month) DC / Arlington / Richmond (4-5 times a year and just left today from a successful tour) San Francisco / Costa Mesa / Beverly Hills (2-3 times a year) Las Vegas (1 or 2 times a year) London (3-5 times a year and there again in 2 weeks) ... also many other European cities!
I love offering Bondassage, and my sessions are expanding to include corporal if that's what is wanted. Anyone who wants to see me, pls go to my site then email me. I keep databases and send email blasts when I am planning travel. you will no longer find me on Er*s. My database is the best way to keep abreast of me. Pun intended!
Anyone know if there are any providers in Wisconsin (Madison or Milwaukee) that provide this? I checked the directory on Bondassage.com for any "certified" providers and didn't see any. I also posted on the Wisconsin discussion board but no responses.
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