Any thoughts on being a good table partner?

Let yourself give up control.

Relax completely, and just experience the sensations. As always, let your masseuse know if anything is uncomfortable, binding, or cutting off circulation, but mainly just let her be in charge.

It is such an erotic experience for me to have a sexy, naked man tied to my table and completely helpless...tease and denial gets sooooo much better when there is rope involved, LOL !!



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My Bondassage is a relaxing massage but with an added kink sensation to it. As you are in the moment I'm whispering things I'm doing or going to do to you while you are or are not blindfolded but is softly tied down. I have never had a uncomfortable moment with anyone but it does gear them to try other things they might want to try within S&M. You definitely want to try my hands at it.

I can take ginger put in my man hood, my balls rubbed with stinging nettle, being beat with a whip, cane and flogger, and shocked with a cattle prod. Yet a simple blind fold, head phones and restraints would put me in full panic mode. To me what you offer is not on the lighter side but well past my comfort zone. Yet I don't even flinch at things that are likely out of your comfort zone to provide. Funny how everyone is completely different in what they can take.

I'm not quite ready for the nettles yet, but I've started to dig the pain thing.  Sharp fingernails digging into my back are a real turn on.

But to be deprived of one of my senses is a real downer.

Pain is the whetting of a sense, while blindness is the loss of one.

I'll take the pain any old day.

Speaking as a mild claustrophobe, I can't do both the blindfold, headphones and restraints.

Maybe one at a time, but I agree TruEbonyMistress, having the domme able to whisper things to me really adds to the appeal.  The headphones alone might put me to sleep.