Are you a life-style player?

Have you tried any non pro sites, or attempted to google your ? 1st?

do a banner exchange. Google FemDom or Dominatrix and you will find all kinds of sites where you can place your banner.

Create a website, there are free places to do this, just be careful of the pics you post, the free places can and will shut you down if they find your pics offensive in some way. Eros has a BDSM advertising area that isn't too expensive, and BackPage usually has a Domination/Fetish area for ads as well.

You will get a lot of wankers, but turn on your Dominant self and shut them down. Make sure you are familiar with the BDSM lingo, and if you are only wanting to do certain things, make sure you put those things in your advertising, otherwise you may get asked for things you don't do, don't like, don't know how to do or aren't interested in.

It takes a while to get to the good ones, but once you find one or two, you will see it is all worthwhile

I am a hybrid as well: love the companionship and sensuality of being an escort but also like to be in charge in the bedroom..but I don't inflict pain or humilation, so I don't consider myself a true Dom.

I started combining the two about a year and a half ago and it's taken me a while to get the wording right.  Now I have a wonderful niche where I see very successful, generous guys who simply want me to take the lead.
Business cities such as Chicago and NYC are loeaded with them.  
The eros BDSM ads are cheap and stay up the whole month.
Figure out how to be very specific about what you are into and don't let anyone bribe or push you into something you are not comfortable with.

As I told the guy I dated that started me on this path:

"Just stick with the two things you're good at, I'll handle everything else."

"What am I good at?'

"F@#king and making money!"

All the best!
Clair Jordan

Not sure why you didn't get a response. It is a much needed service here in chi-town. Thanks for posting.