When you think back to early adulthood, what inspired you to explore and enact your desires to be sexually dominant? How do you feel the life you lead beyond BDSM informs why you're inclined to be dominant? Are there dynamics that emerge in your life or people you know that intensify your desire to be dominant?
I'm curious to know what titillates you! Recently I've been reading more about subspace so now I'm left wondering about the other end of the spectrum.
I have older brothers & an identical twin sister. At a young age I always wanted to be a boy because of the double standards. I wore my brother’s underwear as a kid. I was on the boys wrestling team in middle school & high school. I’ve dominate for as long as I can remember it’s in me. I am naturally dominant by nature. Alpha Female with divine feminine energy.
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First off, hi Lena! So lovely to see you on here
What a great question!!
I grew up in a very small proper town. My first real boyfriend was on the wrestling team and LOVED it when I put him in the holds he taught me and other kinky things. None of my friends and I talked about sex so I (feel free to laugh) thought kink exploration was what everyone was doing. My next boyfriend was VERY confused by what I thought foreplay was. At 18, I beat feet to Chicago and became a dominatrix. Things were different back then, kinky gfe was not really a thing. You were either an escort or a Domme and the two didn't cross. I did though because kink exploration is very erotic to me. There is something about a person's openness to trust me with their kinky thoughts fuels my sexual dominance. It is my kink, lol. To take control knowing they have given me the key to their submissiveness. Same with fetishists. What tittilates you?