Whenever I have played it has always been as a sub, and recently someone I was with told me I should try experiencing what it is like to play the dominant role.  The problem is I am afraid I would have absolutely no idea what to do.  For the ladies, how have you dealt with first timers without the session being really lame for you?  How do they know what to do without being told which would defeat the purpose.  And guys, how did you learn the first time?

Wow, great response !!

I love teaching those who want to give Topping a try, and these are all good suggestions in how to get started.


K

95% of our clients are Subs wishing to cross over and explore the arousal of having someone restrained, helpless and at their total mercy. A popular role play they choose is where Jake is dominating / interrogating them and the Mistress. During the interrogation Jake makes the client bite and put clothespins etc on the Mistress nipples. Later Jake unties the Mistress from the spread eagle stretching device on the bed to go to the bathroom, on the way to the bathroom she slips a rape drug in his drink. When she comes back Jake passes out, she takes off the clients handcuffs and gag and the both of them put Jake on the stretching rack to get revenge. She is pissed at the client for tormenting her nipples so during Jakes torture she yells at the client telling him/showing him the correct way to torture Jake(IE,"Turn the cranks more!!"- "Whip him harder!!" - "Hold the candle closer to his body!!")
She also makes him do any other "activities" he discussed wanting to explore prior o the session.

Posted By: MistressKiley

Wow, great response !!

I love teaching those who want to give Topping a try, and these are all good suggestions in how to get started.


K

Get a switch and light me up till my skin glows.

8o)

That would be a great role play for me to experience the Dominant role. First being interrogated by a Master and then having the tables turned and getting my revenge by having  the Dominatrix assist amd coach me on S & M torment. Looks like Jake hits the weight room alot, that would be a hot body to afflict some pain on. Nice "package" for edging too!!

Posted By: Capri_Jake

95% of our clients are Subs wishing to cross over and explore the arousal of having someone restrained, helpless and at their total mercy. A popular role play they choose is where Jake is dominating / interrogating them and the Mistress. During the interrogation Jake makes the client bite and put clothespins etc on the Mistress nipples. Later Jake unties the Mistress from the spread eagle stretching device on the bed to go to the bathroom, on the way to the bathroom she slips a rape drug in his drink. When she comes back Jake passes out, she takes off the clients handcuffs and gag and the both of them put Jake on the stretching rack to get revenge. She is pissed at the client for tormenting her nipples so during Jakes torture she yells at the client telling him/showing him the correct way to torture Jake(IE,"Turn the cranks more!!"- "Whip him harder!!" - "Hold the candle closer to his body!!")
She also makes him do any other "activities" he discussed wanting to explore prior o the session.

Posted By: MistressKiley

Wow, great response !!

I love teaching those who want to give Topping a try, and these are all good suggestions in how to get started.


K

Great reply Alyson.  Appreciate the coaching.  I think I will take the plunge.


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Thanks StillNHiding.  Yes, Jake tries and get to the gym 9 - 11 times a week

Posted By: StillNHiding

That would be a great role play for me to experience the Dominant role. First being interrogated by a Master and then having the tables turned and getting my revenge by having  the Dominatrix assist amd coach me on S & M torment. Looks like Jake hits the weight room alot, that would be a hot body to afflict some pain on. Nice "package" for edging too!!

Posted By: Capri_Jake

95% of our clients are Subs wishing to cross over and explore the arousal of having someone restrained, helpless and at their total mercy. A popular role play they choose is where Jake is dominating / interrogating them and the Mistress. During the interrogation Jake makes the client bite and put clothespins etc on the Mistress nipples. Later Jake unties the Mistress from the spread eagle stretching device on the bed to go to the bathroom, on the way to the bathroom she slips a rape drug in his drink. When she comes back Jake passes out, she takes off the clients handcuffs and gag and the both of them put Jake on the stretching rack to get revenge. She is pissed at the client for tormenting her nipples so during Jakes torture she yells at the client telling him/showing him the correct way to torture Jake(IE,"Turn the cranks more!!"- "Whip him harder!!" - "Hold the candle closer to his body!!")
She also makes him do any other "activities" he discussed wanting to explore prior o the session.

Posted By: MistressKiley

Wow, great response !!

I love teaching those who want to give Topping a try, and these are all good suggestions in how to get started.


K

After I have played with a friend a few times it is fun & surprising to them when I switch it up.  Sometime's a naughty OTK spanking can be great with the right player!

I interact with several Dommes, both at home and during travel.  Mistress Gwen Freestorm in Minnesota, Mistress Raven in Tampa or Eva Marie on the road.  All 3 of these wonderful ladies have different styles, but are excellent at what they do, and would be thrilled to teach you domination skills with me as a sub to both of you.  A Domme/sub session can be quite intense, enjoyable and educational, with none of the ackward feelings you are concerned about.

.... don't you feel in this case master somehow looses his power or part of his mighty by letting his slave to be dominant.....

In the right role play scenario it would add more emotional arousal to the session. If the Slave is punished by the Master / Dominatrix in the beginning then some how manages to turn the tables and seek revenge on his Captor the last part of the role play.