I am curious if people are booking BDSM sessions & expecting GFE too? I have different tributes for services provided. I am a kinky GFE, but consider that a VIP experience it’s different. Please share your opinions.

very difficult to find.
have one in PDX,still looking in NYC.
For me fisting and BJ is the best.

like to keep a wall between the two services.

I saw a Dom for over 5 years who promised both BDSM and GFE.  The 2nd never happened but she took me into such new levels of submission which I enjoyed forgot about the GFE art of it

I see an S&M tribute that’s $$ more, than your Escort contribution, so here is where the confusion is. How can anyone assume that your S&M includes Escort, or is your rate different from what is listed on your TER profile for Sensual Domination? You might want to update your TER profile to reflect you current consideration because your website is extremely higher, than your TER profile it’s confusing to say the very least. I have VIP here, so I look at everything. $2k for 2 hours GFE is that considered sensual domination? I hate to assume.

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My personal style is BDSM with a perverted GFE/PSE twist so I would say heck yes. I've never been a fan of the dos or don't that can be put on the topic.

myself a sensual Domme and include everything I offer in my vanilla sessions to my submissive friends as well. While I know that's not common, I think it's important to do what you feel comfortable with and enjoy and not get caught up on what anyone else thinks is the "right" way to play.

I know that many Dommes don't or wont offer GFE or FS so I wont see them as a sub paying for a service i expect to get what i want.  If no fee (i differentiate between a fee vs tribute / gift) then i submit myself to whatever the Mistress / Domme wants as long as other limits are not violated.  Admittedly I find the combination difficult to find.

Some pro dommes seem absolutely offended by the idea of combining BDSM with GFE, but honestly, I think it all comes down to the individual provider’s comfort, style, and boundaries.

I used only be a FemDom, just UTR. Ive recently become a FS GFE, I love being more sensual with my subbies. I enjoy using them for play in every possible way. The best D/s relationships have been able to have the GFE connection too. Beautiful to have that kind of aftercare 🫶🏼

This is frustrating to me and probably most Doms.  Why would U expect GFE with a pro dom?  They are two different skill sets.  Sadly this type of thinking cost me a the opportunity to see a Dom that visits once or twice a year.  I've shared the story before but we had a session and I left a review here.  She is a Pro Dom.  Very good and serious about her craft.  I left a review as there are many reviews on here for doms.  Well she got messages from guys on here asking if she provides?  She got pissed at me even though the review was clear about services she felt that it was on a escort site that it gave these guys the impression she also did favors.  I got banned from seeing her.  

You will have more luck finding a full GFE provider with an interest in BDSM.

The experience of seeing me is at baseline a GFE. I price BDSM as an add-on because you’re always getting my full emotional and physical self - I can just also bring in a power dynamic as desired.

Now thats what Im talking about!  

I'm always impressed when I see a girl able to pull that off! I have a friend of mine locally who does BDSM without much sexual contact and she often calls me in to help take care of that part of it. She has a booming business too! pretty interesting.

As most pro dommes I know don't offer it, but that being said, some of us do, and I think that there's no wrong or right way. I also have a separate kinky GFE package myself that covers a very wide range of possibilities. There are all different types of BDSM experiences from sensual to quite sadistic and whatever goes on between the individuals involved as long as it's consensual, is really their own kinky story to write.