Hi, would love to explore BDSM more, I think it can be a window on your inner psych. A door into that black box of your subconscious desires. Any short summary, either book or website, which gives a quick view of the landscape? I would like to to know what road I should take into the subject. Also, any providers in Boston who work with newbies? Thanks everyone!!
...and she specializes in sensual domination, kink, and fetish. I'd definitely give her a look!
As for books, there are a million. SM101, Screw The Roses, Give Me The Thorns... Look those up on Amazon and see what it suggests.
Good luck!
Lady Victoria NYC travels to Boston frequently and is extremely newbie friendly
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Very easy to research!!
Besides my website, the brand has it's own...
Play safe!
Ms. Clair Jordan
genuineness and a willingness to learn & explore are awesome traits in BDSM.
check out fetlife.
it will be a good resource.
Also, the bdsm landscape is more vast and twisting than people can even imagine. Go slow, learn your limits and find people who will respect them, try new things out, figure out what you like.
something else to keep in mind: there are many bdsm communities, and it's easy to think/assume that's all there is- but there is always more.
fetlife though is always a great place. I'm not on there myself anymore (professional competition carfishing& stalkers) but many people find a whole new world for themselves in their.
any questions or safety concerns, feel free to contact me direct, my emails on my website. (it's not worth it for me in this locale to pay for premium TER&get pms) hell, I remember being a newbie-lotsa mistakes, lotsa people lick their lips looking at you thinking of dinner. (total predator bait)
good luck, have fun, play safe