Someone who actually has more experience in BDSM?

I have, and our lifestyle relationship has grown over the year it’s the best!

I like to be dominant, but just in role play.  Some submissives want someone who really dominates their entire life. I'm strictly a bedroom role player.  It's too frick'n much work running someone else's life outside of the bedroom.
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So I've only met submissives who are relatively new.  I've been rejected by submissives who have been in it a while and crave the control over their entire lives. Not for me.  
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So I'd say, no.  They might have had more hours under the whip, but breadth of experience, we've been either about equal or I've had a bit more.