I would like to know the Dom’s perspective on fisting and anal stretching. It is my strongest fetish. Personally being anally penetrated and stretched to my limits is my ultimate act of submission. Face down ass up, how vulnerable, how dirty, how delicious!  

I would like to hear what Dom’s derive from the experience. One Mistress who indulges my anal stretching fetish almost seems to be more pleased than I (if that is possible) when she inserts a huge object inside me for the first time. I have video of the first time I took a baseball bat and another with the extreme goose (great toy BTW) and I think she moaned louder than I when I was finally able to open enough to get them in my ass.  

Is it good for you too

As a top, I LOVE fisting and anal stretching. And "pegging", and prostate play, and... you get the idea. I could gush for hours about it.

My primary fetish is depravity, and anal play hits all my buttons in that way. It's also really cool to see what the human body is capable of, stretching (heh) it to its limits.  

Contrary to its portrayal in porn, It's an incredibly intimate act that requires a lot of trust, patience and skill. I am always aglow when I receive demonstrations of devotion and trust from my submissives and bottoms. For those of you that have never fisted someone, you should know that you can feel the bottom's heartbeat when you're in there!

I practice tantra in my personal life, and one of the things you focus on is transference of energy. I can pick up on other people's orgasmic sensations, and have had experiences similar to the one you mentioned your dominant experiencing in your post. Simply put, if we're very present and connected when we're getting it on, I might just pick up orgasmic "aftershocks" myself, without being touched. I also get off psychologically on getting people off, especially huge, powerful, full body prostate orgasms, the kind that leave you buzzing for hours.

Aside from all the sexual gratification, I always have a swelling of pride and appreciation for my bottom/submissive when I finally get that last knuckle in and slide the rest of the way in...

 
Uhh, that's all I have to say about that for now, I'll be in my bunk.

Dear Miss Ardeur,

I visited your site and Wow you are just luscious. What an extraordinary ass. Your porcelain complexion is a great canvas for the beautiful art.  Your thighs make me want to “Do bad things with you”. Makes me wish I was a couple hundred years younger and in NY.  

You are so young and cute and sweet looking it would be such a turn on to be fisted by you. Kind of like being violated by a china doll. There’s a thought….. a china doll in my ass, but I digress.  It would make for an interesting toy box role play though.  China Doll fists Teddy Bear.  

I am glad to hear your positive perspective. I agree fisting is one of the most intimate acts two people can share, or three if you are lucky and talented. Your hand is literally in my being. Mistress always makes me be quiet for a moment so she can feel my heartbeat from the inside. It only happened one time, but Mistress had an orgasm while she was fucking me with a strapon. I couldn't wipe the smile off my face after that.

It really is about connecting. I have had a few sessions where either the Mistress wasn't into extreme anal play or wasn't into me and it was a flat and lifeless. But when the Top and Bottom are in harmony it can just build into something extraordinary.  

BTW any thoughts on double fisting. I cannot seem to open up enough to get the last knuckle in. I will really be bummed if I can't take two hands eventually. It is on my bucket list.  

I’ll remember my towel.  

“A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky, dangerous animals, and you know it!” - K

Thanks and keep up the lube handy

I'll start by clarifying that I am actually not a domme and anyone seeking to be degraded or dominated should look elsewhere for that.  That said, I am a fisting enthusiast and will have the happiest grin on my face while your ass swallows my arm.  I love how powerful and intimate it feels.  I love that every twitch of my knuckles can cause such intense reactions and feeling someone's heart beat from inside their body.  If ass play is a sport, then fisting is the realm of champions.  It's definitely one of my favorite things!  

What do I get out of it?  Fucking someone with large objects such as a fist or multiple fists requires patience and skill on the behalf of both the inserting and the receptive partner.  It's a super intense and amazing journey from start to finish!  I feel incredibly satisfied when my knuckles slide past the sphincters and the journey inward begins.  The intense pleasure that my partner experiences is delightful to witness and participate in.

Basically, what's not to like?  The human body is fucking amazing and it's incredible when someone can swallow half my arm up their ASS.  Like, I could never do that.  So I am honored when I get to participate in such an amazing feat.  It's fucking impressive!  And super fun

Yes, of course that is where I went!  They did not have my size (XS), but the Small size will do for now.