My provider cancelled out on me for my light-bondage BDSM date tonight. I am really bummed out!! She was offering a great rate too for a multi-hour date.

Im pretty certain he did a multitude of things *improperly*

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To a more deserving person. LO

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I don't know what he did, but I'm glad I didn't piss you and Bunny off.  Booking for August now, hoping to see you for Bud Light and other good, clean fun!

I'll explain it to you later. LOL

Las Vegas

Check my latest reviews on P411 if you think I did something improperly. I beg to differ with you

I don't think you know me, therefore shouldn't make statements like that.

well sir, first of all.. you dont post reviews on p411. so I think YOURE the one who may not know what youre talking about. second of all, ill let you know exactly the things you did improperly.

...but specifically on the first point you mentioned:

Why is it a no-no for a prospective client to mention that he's also scheduled an appointment with another provider? (I mean, assuming that he's not trying to pull a "Well, I was gonna see Dolores Delvecchio on Friday eve for $XXX, but I'll cancel her and schedule with you for Friday eve if you're 'negotiable' on your rate."  That would obviously be a huge no-no).

If a client is new to a particular city, isn't it actually better if he mentions with whom else he's planning to spend time?  That way, the providers in question can use each other as a resource in the event that the client doesn't pass the smell test with one of them (or so I would think).

As for the rest of your points:  If true, Yeah, all that stuff is obviously bad.

Thank you for all the tips on how to be a better hobbyist on the board. You are right I am fairly new to this hobby. With my fetish preferences I have to explore -- because more than half of the ladies are not interested. I have to find out which ones are. Sorry if you don't like my methods, but I do find that girls feel more comfortable with my fetish fantasy if they know some of the girls that I am conversing with, trying to date, or have already seen.

i don't know if its a "no-no" to mention another providers name.  

..using one provider's willingness to offer discounts as a wedge to get other providers to do the same = A Bad Thing.

The only aspect of this that I questioned was the mentioning of one provider's name to another, primarily in terms of the "I'm new in town, so I'm disclosing this info in the interests of making the ladies feel more comfortable".

I did something like this when I first started hobbying in my primary hobby city.  It worked to the advantage of all concerned.  Only reason why I brought it up.

Tease and complete denial.

True! So True!