Hey guys, what do you think about a situation like this? Nothing was discussed before hand.. but in the middle of the session.. he wanted to try more BDSM stuff than my GFE package. I personally prefer being told ahead of time.
Yeah agreed, it should be discussed prior to engagement. Not sure how one changes gears in the middle of a GFE to a Lets do some BDSM play now? I prefer to start with the BDSM and end with the GFE myself…
There's the issue of not discussing sexual acts ahead of meeting. So during the session is the best time to bring up sex acts. I think you have three choices, you can accept some of them now, accept them at a future date, or reject them now or in the future.
Of course you can bring it up prior to the engagement. There's nothing wrong with saying, "Are you comfortable in a femdom role" or "Are you comfortable as a submissive?"
Do bring it up halfway through leaves no room for preparation and it's just going to make everyones experience worse than it could have been.
Even worse if he suddenly expects you to be submissive without establishing your boundaries.
You can only be vague before hand. Are you submissive? That's fine, but it is also very vague and subjective.
he should have a pretty good idea of what to expect. Another thing to do: DM a few of your reviewers.
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near the end of a session, is contemplation of "next time". That way there's little pressure, no issue of preparations, and time to discuss and get expectations right. Mostly I don't bring it up until the lady gives at least a hint, and that has led to some hot kinky times in future encounters.