for light touch play: fur, fingernails, nylon, icecubes, a mouth holding coughdrops or cinnamon mixed w/oil

soft&pain focused in giving & receiving from men, mostly soft focused in giving to women.

I'm a sensual Taurus and love to mix it up with rabbit fur gloves, leather vampire gloves, bronze claws, nerve wheels, knives, and a TENS unit.

Feathers, ice cubes, water.

The old standards.... Mix those up with a flogger and the hitachi and some occasional penetration- toys nitrile gloves... and you can really get a sub going.  Blindfold and restraints are of course an understood precondition.  Haven't played with a wartenburg wheel but it could be an interesting teasing tool or really painful depending how it's used. sandpaper just sounds painful... but I am much more of a sensualist than some.. inflicting pain for the sake of inflicting pain is just not my thing.  Correction of course is a different matter....  

I have a favorite Domme who is most skilled with her violet wand, especially with the attachment that sends the current through her body.  In tight bondage and combined with her sparkling personality and wicked laughter, it can be quite erotic! I'm not sure I would enjoy it in less experienced hands, though.

Other than that I have always enjoyed a good flogging followed by soft fur being rubbed all over my very sore and sensitive skin!

Latex...

It must be my favorite. Nothing is quite as exciting to me as something that is smooth, shiny, and also restrictive.