okay- I don't want to be bitchy, but.... rope bunnies are a dime a dozen. (I could find one on fet right now, so could you)
sooooo if your p2p w/this dame, it's for a reason.
Not to mention the psychological prep & physical prep some of us go through, fasting, enemas, shaving, waxing, plucking, body makeup, microdermabrasion, etc et al on top of physical effects of restraints sometimes lasting for days...
Does she tell you her problems? Ask you to buy her tampons? Nag you about chores? Probably not.
If she's a good provider, it's all about you. It is a job, a hard job (and I'm not complaining, I fucking love it) and the work needs to be recognized-reward you? This is the same argument of "She enjoyed herself, I don't have to pay her." Seriously, bro-
The time and effort it takes to give exceptional service is pure mastery, there are those of us who even go so far as to create a psychological profile before hand, and it begins with the confirmation phone call, before you even meet, creating that right mix of what you need and what you desire.
So, if you don't want to pay her, you don't have to see her.
And I do understand where you are coming from- all I do is fetish & BDSM & restraints- but there is more to what providers do than a lot of clients realize.
If you feel your skills are that good, make a fet-l profile and start slinging some masculine driven dominant rope bondage.