Throw in all the issues that you all discussed above (SO, work, not knowing where you'll be until the day before, etc.) and then throw in the fact that you live 90 minutes away from all the providers.
That's me. It's incredibly tough to try to get a good session planned out. Usually I have to try to book day of, and I'm usually looking for evening sessions when most providers in the area book during the daytime. I'd probably hobby 3x as much if I lived in the area. But I don't, so it is what it is
I always have trouble scheduling time with the ladies, finding time away from the SO in addition to my work (like, I had to cancel some potential appointments for today because of a meeting I couldn't get out of at work).
I'm also one of those dorks that uses Visa gift cards to pay for at least part of my session, so that lowers my options of who I can see on a moment's notice. Yes, please, mock me all you want but that's the easiest way for me to sneak the money away and there ARE providers who accept them.
Guys, do you often finding time in your life for appointments?
Ladies, is your schedule ever difficult to juggle?
Being married and a small business owner with 1 person that works with me part time 2 days a week. I have always tried to schedule at least 2 weeks ahead of time but that don't always work either. I got bashed several years ago for being a NS, but the majority of the times it was the provider that did canceling on me. So, now when I do have time to play, I try to do it when I am going out of town for a day or a weekend. I hate to try to schedule on a short notice, as it always gets screwed up.
I know your pain. 90 % of my sessions are last minute, same day decisions. My job is such that most days I don't know where I will be until the day before. Hell I didn't know where I was going to be today until 6:00 AM this morning. There are so many wonderful ladies in Atlanta that I would like to see or see again but I hate to schedule in advance because I know there is a high probability I may have to cancel last minute.
Throw in all the issues that you all discussed above (SO, work, not knowing where you'll be until the day before, etc.) and then throw in the fact that you live 90 minutes away from all the providers.
That's me. It's incredibly tough to try to get a good session planned out. Usually I have to try to book day of, and I'm usually looking for evening sessions when most providers in the area book during the daytime.
I'd probably hobby 3x as much if I lived in the area. But I don't, so it is what it is
I'm good with rearranging schedules...if something comes up, I understand...I know a lot of men have things that pop up, out of their control and have to cancel. As long as you do it in a timely matter it's all good to me. I don't freak out on cancelations. I live a very hectic free life and I can accommodate most at most times! This was a good post, and I appreciate you gents discussing this issue! Thank you!
I appreciate a man that try's to book ahead of time but also explains his situation that he is unsure if he can make it. You had a time in mind you just needed more time to figure out if it would work or not. I have no problem doing this. It gives me a heads up and at the same time, I know it's only a possibility. I have several gentleman that I deal with this way as I understand how life can be. It may make it difficult on you to get away, but I think the way you handled things was very well played.
As for me, I have a part time job so my schedule is crazy. I do most of my job from home so I can be flexible somewhat with my job. But because of that I can't give a set schedule for this job and a lot of gentlemen what to know a schedule. That part sucks for me, but I've been able to handle thing pretty well since I've been back.
Stevie, I know it's probably frustrating for you that you can't play as easily or as much as you would like, but I'm sure it makes the times you do get to play that much better!
Khori how long it took for me to get a date with her, and I have been trying to work on a schedule for you Crisin but my job and family always comes first. Like the word it is-its a hobby for us.
That the easiest way is to have your wish list verify you in advance and if you have a free moment, pop off an email to see if they're available. I often have a couple open spots that I'd be happy to see someone.
I too sometimes have scheduling difficulties. I am more low volume nowdays so I do book up fast and not to mention trying to start and run a new business and family... YES I definitely understand. I also know how difficult YOUR schedule is It is all good baby as you always give notice IF you cant make it Since I am only an hour away from my incall, if I have a few hours notice (for you and people I know) I can sometimes do same day but it is rare so I always ask for guys to prebook. Doesn't hurt to ask for sure! Cant wait to see you again I got your email and I am emailing you back now FYI to everyone else giving Stevieisme a hard time, he is and always has been nothing but a respectful and fun guy to me Hugs and kisses TL Hugs and kisses TL
I've said it before, but I'll say it again. It helps to have a routine where you go to a health club or gym on a routine basis. When I go, its usually for two hours at a time. I go before work, so that means 5am-7am, or after work if I choose to sleep in. If I get out early, that's great and it works to be there between 2 and 5pm. Sometimes I'll go as late as 6-8pm. I also try to go on the weekends, and this could be any time from 7am to 7pm depending on the schedule for chores, sporting events, social engagements etc. The point is, if you have a routine of leaving work and going to workout for 2 hours, disappearing any day of the week for two hours is unremarkable. One thing to add to your routine is not to respond to any calls or texts while at the gym. That way, you go in, tell "whoever" that you're going in, and they will expect to hear from you when you are on your way home or back to work. Heck, I've already got a great workout planned for tomorrow sometime after 5pm and when I get home. And, as an added benefit, you'll stay in shape. ---lat
cheduling can be a pain in the butt sometimes, but I have found that most busy men will find it easier if they do the following.
1. Schedule at least a day in advance. (I know not the spontaneity you may desire, but it helps).
2. And the second thing put it in your calendar as out of the office Dr. appointment check up. This way work colleagues or a S/O will not bother you. And nothing is serious just a check up and it allows just the right amount of time for you to spend with your favorite lady. And hey a Dr's appointment people will get and understand so you can get away from that meeting.
As far as credit cards, most Ladies have paypal set up or a green dot card you can check with them when reserving.
... it was just me. I am extremely spontaneous and have a great agency that keeps me satisfied. But when I try to branch out, availability/response is frequently a problem. I have a request for Wednesday which hasn't been responded to yet, but I really don't know how convenient it will be when that time comes. Guess I'll need to block it out as my chiro appointment! lol
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It is all good baby as you always give notice IF you cant make it