Re: A session with an ATF that sucked......

There's a lesson in there for the ladies.  I've had similar situations.  I try to be a good listener and patient but I booked the appointment to get laid, not to listen to your personal problems.  Gold star to the lady who said she didn't want your money.  Perhaps if you hadn't paid her anyway, she'd quit doing that shit.

In talking with other hobbyists, I've heard the same story over and over.....it's getting old.

and you paid her.  Sounds like she crossed the line with you.  Cut her loose and get your money back.  She sounds like a nut job, but its usually the crazy ones that f#ck so gooood!

Oh well, I bet it takes you all of a minute to replace her.
good luck

If she's really an ATF and the two of you have established a friendship, then I would keep seeing her but would certainly address my concerns.

If she needs someone to talk to about her problems, that's OK but not on my dime. That needs to happen off the clock and fairly seldom.

This is a crazy business for the ladies and can be extremely stressful. That is often compounded by poor choices in the BF area. I would lend a sympathetic ear as long as it's not abused.

I had an ATF for about 4 years I saw twice a month that was fabulous! She was truely a UTR she recently retired and while we were probably a little closer than hobbiest provider should be we both were respectful of one another. We exchanged emails and jokes and spoke on phone occasionally, she was truely a great lady! I have had to reprogram  myself again  being use to this type of interaction with one lady in particular. Who has been great. I enjoy talking about  civi life with the ladies but what you are saying seems like pure drama.... I dont know about you but most of us are here to stay away from that! If she is your ATF maybe you should discuss this with her. If you dont see a difference then maybe it time to move on. Just my two cents!

and your ATF.  Hope whatever you do makes you happy.  

and if she sounds upset don't set a date. Call her while on your way to see if anything has change and if it has ask her if she would like to cancel. Remind her how much you want to lick her pussy. Wow lots of foreplay on the phone only allowed for ATF's on my phoneBut sets the mood and let's either one of you cancel if things aren't right.

Sounds like a lot of work for some but as you said this is one special lady for you. 2 times in 5 years and she didn't want you to pay. See if she will make it extra special the next time you meet and double your pleasure and time for your usual cost. Making up can be hot hot hot and a whole lot of fun. Don't mess up by bringing up the not so perfect meeting while your there or you'll change the mood.

Kisses Haley