-- Modified on 6/4/2008 5:37:24 AM

Communication has long been a problem with the agency in question ; as well as very unprofessional customer service.

your earlier post concluding by saying "He has spoken" seemed like you were pretty clearly pointing the finger at Monica of ER - did I misinterpret that?

if that was not your implication, it seems like a very strange and unusual way to end your post

Damn, you got your post up before mine Connie, but that is exactly what I thought.


W Accused, that's good news.  And I'm happy the agency isn't ER seeing how you indirectly implied it was Monica..

It's a shame that the agency in question has yet to be named.  I was convinced the agency was ER based on your ending phrase in the original thread...  "He has spoken". I believe Monica coined the phrase.  

This issue was brought to a public forum, under alias I might add, without releasing any pertinent information.   If this was serious enough to make public here, then why not serious enough to name names?  Innuendo, speculation, and a lack of information can tarnish a great reputation, so take that into consideration before you start a thread regarding such a sensitive topic.

Are/were you fearful of retaliation from the agency in question being the agency has your personal information?  If that's the case, then why mention it, and of all places, here?




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-- Modified on 6/3/2008 2:33:24 PM

My public statement.
I am the provider in question here. It was in fact me that turned this guy away.. and let me share what REALLY happened so that there is less confusion.
If this ruins my career so be it. If I never booked again,  fine.. I made a GOOD choice despite what  this guy and any other person would like to say..
This is the way it went
A few weeks ago.. I had a one hour session with this GUY. Things are going well.. I offered him a shower, mouthwash, ect. I do my normal ritual with a new client (new to me not the agency).. I chit chat a little to take the nervous edge off. When clothes start to come off, I notice what appears to be a rash on his inner thigh. Not just any rash, it was a rash that appeared to be UNDER the skin. It was not surface. There were no bumps. However, the skin appeared to be peeling in a sense. From this point I look at dead in his eyes and ask.. is that herpes?  He responded too casually with, “no… that’s not herpes.” His response was in fact SO casual I asked him to excuse me for a moment. I went into the living room and goggle imaged “herpes”.. on the second page of images there was a female who had the same looking “rash” on her inner thight. No bumps.. but red and purple looking colors UNDER the skin.
SO what was I to do?
I went back in the room with the client and asked more questions about the rash. He said that he had shaved that day and it was razor burn. Now, I’m not idiot and I also don’t work for crack money.. meaning that money isn’t WHY I do my job.. but instead I do it for PASSSION. I understand all skin types are different. However I am a female.. who shaves. I have been shaving for many years. I know what razor burn and bumps look like. As I have said before this was UNDER the surface. There were no bumps. To add to the disaster, I asked, “When did you shave?” He said, “This morning.”  Strike three.. first of all.. never in all of my years of shaving have I ever got razor bumps or burn the SAME day.. maybe that night.. but usually the NEXT day or the following day. And without being a bitch, I told him that. He said, “this was my first time shaving there, I didn’t know what to expect.”    So I am rubbing his stomach contemplating my next move because something is telling me..”Don’t do it.. it’s not worth it.” Make NO mistake this guy still got off via my hand.. even though I felt like I wanted to bathe in bleach.  But I am new.. so I didn’t know what to do. This was only my second week. He asks if we were going to do anything further. I told him NO because I was uncomfortable and told him I didn’t think I should have to do anything I didn’t want to do. WHICH IS TRUE. So what.. a girl made a decent judgement call. Since when does that deserve disrespect? Back lash? Fuck that.. because this is not where the story ends.
I could tell this GUY was not happy. I’m not a doctor.. you are all right.. however I was pre med. He’s looking pissed right.. and I feel so ashamed and embarrassed for him and MYSELF.. that I straight up offered this guy his money. Told him just to leave the agency fee and he could have MY cut. Safety first, right? AT first he said he wasn’t going to do that. Our hour is not even over yet and he still STAYED the rest of the time and we TALKED!!!!!!  When his time was up.. he did take back a percentage of MY cut!! Even though he got off.. even tho he spent an hour. We both hugged at the end and swore we would tell anyone what happened. He said he wasn’t mad ect.. I even told him if he came back with a test I would literally be HIS fuck slave for a discount. He still made sure to tell me, “You do know that just one bad review could make all these phone calls for you stop.” I told him, “Sir, if you feel the need to do that, please be my guest. I’m confident enough to know that I can bounce back.”
GUY leaves … I am all messed up in the head. I’m almost crying because at the time I was no longer sure if I wanted this JOB anymore. So guess who calls at this moment of reckoning? MY BOSS. I told her what happened. She assured me that I made the right decision and that she would simply tell the guy that he could only come back with a full panel test. She talked to me out of sympathy and gave me a much need confidence boost about the decision I had made.  
The next few days I spent on edge. Waiting on a bad review.. and so forth. Check my reviews actually.. you will read one where a guy says that I seemed pre occupied with what happened with a guy before him.. NOTICE that?!?!? Anyone??? This is that GUY. In fact after him my performance point lowered a little.. I went from four tens to 9’s.. even 8’s… it took me a few days to get myself together.
So here I am over it.. right?
Then on my agency’s message board I get a message from this GUY pretty much cussing me out for bad mouthing him. I only told my boss. The boss in which he hasn’t had a conversation with.. I told him just that. I had only spoke with her. He said I wasn’t a doctor and shouldn’t make a diagnosis.. ect.. cussing cussing cussing.. then in fact said “How would you like it if I posted on TER that you have HIV?”.. I informed him that I would see him in court for slander..  and that I would sue. His next message was about how he was an ex judge/lawyer or some stupid shit.. and eventually he apologized for being mean ect.. Since then he has continued to send friendly messages and has even asked not once but twice for me to see him AFTER HOURS. I could post these fucking messages right here.. because I still have them..
(continued)

I told him I DON’T BREAK RULES.
He said we squashed this. This has been over a month ago.
So what.. burn down the out call.. piss on someone? What the fuck is wrong with you people.  I made a VERY good call on this despite what ANY of you people have to say. My name is NAUDIA I work for ESSENTIAL REFFERALS , and I am PROUD that I have a year and a halves worth of std test PUBLIC through AIM. I stand beside my decision for safety to THIS day. Bad mouth that PLEASE. Bad mouth that I am a young girl who looks forward to having a family one day. I look forward to having a future.  I would NEVER go to work with a rash like that.. just as you should NEVER knock on MY door with a rash like that. I am proud to work for a company who stands behind me on such decisions. NOT some pimp who doesn’t give a fuck about anything other than money.
Since WHEN did that become WRONG? You tell me.. I’m a lady with a lot of fire and a good head on my shoulders. If these are things you DON’T want out of a provider, feel free to browse ELSEWHERE.
He said we squashed this. This has been over a month ago.
So what.. burn down the out call.. piss on someone? What the fuck is wrong with you people.  I made a VERY good call on this despite what ANY of you people have to say. My name is NAUDIA I work for ESSENTIAL REFFERALS , and I am PROUD that I have a year and a halves worth of std tests PUBLIC through AIM. I stand beside my decision for safety to THIS day. Bad mouth that PLEASE. Bad mouth that I am a young girl who looks forward to having a family one day. I look forward to having a future.  I would NEVER go to work with a rash like that.. just as you should NEVER knock on MY door with a rash like that. I am proud to work for a company who stands behind me on such decisions. (and I feel they shouldn't be scared or ashamed of that) NOT some pimp who doesn’t give a fuck about anything other than money.
Since WHEN did that become WRONG? You tell me.. I’m a lady with a lot of fire and a good head on my shoulders. If these are things you DON’T want out of a provider, feel free to browse ELSEWHERE.
I am not ashamed of going public. I don't believe my company should be.. and she didn't tell me to post this and I'm sure it may make a few people mad.. but I don't think we should hide under "MISCOMMUNICATION"
Obviously they got everything squared away "MISCOMMUNICATION" wise.. and this may cost me my job and everything else but I'll keep my good name and no further slander is needed toward me or my company.
He was told he could come back with a test.. it was that SIMPLE. And make one more joke about having a "rash".. its NOT a joke people. This is my life we are talking about.. and I take pride in my life. YOU SHOULD TOO.
GUY.. I'm glad you got everything squared away.. but I wish you wouldn't have made the original dramtic post that has effected my time off.. with the under tone of pointing fingers and me and my company. I appreciate the fact that you did say I apologized but I don't appreciate you leaving out certain details. I would have had my people call you if I had a "rash" around or on my goods.
I walk away from this shameless without regret and I HOPE my company does too.. they keep putting us on blast.. they wanted us to respond.. SO I took the INICATIVE.
For those who have common sense, I look forward to meeting you.. while I'm here I should add that tomorrow I'll be hosting a "PJ" party.. (party of two that is) Thursday is a picnic.. friday is my pre birthday bash.. or join me saturday for "Teacher's pet Saturday".. are you the teacher, or are you the pet?
I like role play.
I have common sense.
Bring your personality.. leave the rest to me..
oh and ummm please leave the um "rash"? at home..  
In Jesus name I pray..
amen.
The Naudia that may or may not have a job tomorrow...

-- Modified on 6/4/2008 5:38:51 AM

you knew what you were doing. you start this thing about a provider and madam accusing you of spreading herpes and you blame others for everything including your original post. If I would to wager a bet it would be that you are lying about something. Either your first post or this one is a lie. Somebody throw in a free poke if you would kill this?

I also believe you have not done yourself or the community any favors, and your explanation seems rather disengenous. Anybody here that believes you did not name the agency, whether truthfully or otherwise is either new or delusional. For anyone who's been here over a week it was plain as day that you were naming ER, If you would like to recant that accusation feel free to do so, but don't try and say that you never mentioned the agency.

Next time you feel the urge to  burden the community with something like this please do us all a favor and DON'T.

If it is who I think it is , their customer service is extremely lacking , if it isn't who I think it is ..... their customer service is still very poor.

I agree; perhaps Wrongly Accused has agreed to a 'gentleman's agreement' of sorts kinda under the radar so as to not harm the agency's business/reputation? If something like that is the case , the community as a whole will suffer because clients here in Atlanta will never ever look at any local agency the same way ever again....

my 2 cents

gug828

This gets more like a lynch mob everytime I take a look at the threads.

First off, to say that because one person or agency may or may not have made an error in judgement or an ill-thought out slip of the tongue does not mean we can't "look at any local agency the same way ever again...."  that's just a bit extreme in my opionion and the kind of talk we don't need in this community.

Secondly, we will probably never know what the truths are from any of the parties involved. Maybe a provider got nervous about a rash and thought it was an std and told her owner who told someone else and so on and so forth. Can I blame the provider? No! If I am about to DATY on a provider and believe there may be a problem with an std am I going to continue? NFW! Am I going to say something? Yes to her and probably to my closest hobby friends so they don't run any risks. Now am I going to post it on the boards? I most likely would require of the provider that she show me a clean, recent test and give her a reasonable amount of time to produce it. If she refused and was remaining active in the community and I thought she imposed a health risk I most definitely would post about it. Some will agree with my train of reason and some won't. Some will say I am ruining her career and others might say I should post it right away because it gives her time to see other guys.
I AM NOT A TRAINED MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL. Neither, I assume, are the provider(s) or agency(s) involved. So my point is did someone screw up? Most definitey. The hobbyist showed up with a rash. screw up number 1. From there it is possible that several other screw-ups happened because of the fear we all have around std's in this hobby.
YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN ACTIVITIES. If you are not willing to take the risks involved in the hobby such as outings, std's or whatever goes along with a less than socially acceptable activity, then get out of the hobby. Do any of us really think there is just one hobbyist that might be carryings herpes? Or one provider? Come on it's a risk. take it or not, no one forces anyone here to participate.

But don't go on a witch hunt and try to destroy what has been a very well thought of agency in this town. And before anyone tries to accuse me, I have not spoken to a single provider or agency regarding any of this issue. I am just over this bs. It shouldn't have been brought to the community if the poster was not going to be forthright from the start.

Sorry for the lenght! (yeah that too ladies!) LOL

he steps down from the pulpit!

Every story has one.  I can't see any fault with your actions apart from maybe letting the appointment go to far.  I'm sure (and I hope) that if you have any doubt regarding the safety of your health, you will end things more abruptly.  I would definitely end an appointment with a provider if I doubted that she was d/d free.

You are with an agency with a great reputation and I'm sure you have alot of support behind your actions.  

If what Naudia has written is true then you Wrongly Accused are so full of CRAP. If you had a rash, you should have stayed home and had it treated before visiting a provider.  

-- Modified on 6/4/2008 5:46:31 AM

Naudia, You have some kahoonas!!! If what you say is the truth, then whoever this person is should be ashamed of himself. Since he is using an alias,I hope it is not one of my friends here. I would be highly disappointed!!!

Talk about pissing in your rice crispies. I do believe you will need to find another hobby my man.

for having the guts to come forward and stop this madness. I would hope if others have a similiar story they would step up too. This kind of behavior and intimidation needs to be exposed.

Well done.  I am glad you stepped up and took this head on.  You shed some light on this topic and pretty much wrapped it up.

On a side note, it is somewhat shameful how some people took a handful of details on this and decided to run with it in a direction that they thought might serve their agenda.  A perfect example of the rumor mill at work.

Are all of you seriously telling me you've never been in a situation where two sides of a story conflicted? If you, you're lying your asses off.

Most of you are instantly taking this girl at her word rather than weighing both sides of an issue. I'm not one to judge, nor am I stating who I think is correct. Though I will say I'm not jumping to any conclusions ESPECIALLY not telling this guy to get off the boards, change hobbies, or leave. Who on earth are you to tell him such a thing? No one made any of you the all powerful purveyor of the hobby in Atlanta.

Before jumping down this person's throat, or anyone's for that matter... consider the facts, both parties speaking, and your place if you were in this situation.

Why the alias? If you are going to chastise us, be a   man and use you real board name!!

I have a right just as you do to say what I feel and think is correct. Though If I were to do it under my real board name, I would lambasted by so many of you that jumped on the other gentlemen and on so many others who dare to challange or question any of these women.

Just a note, no woman (besides your mother) is a shining beacon of light ... they're not unfoulable. they're just human, regardless of their looks. try to be a little more objective maybe? Oh... and stop trying to pick fights on the internet. It's like running in the special olympics ... even if you win... you're still retarded (sorry if that offended anyone).

hobbied for a while but, i have a skin problem that is hereditary and not contagious by any means. i have been married for over 24yrs, and my so doesn't have it, and also, many docs have told me other people cant get it,(at least from me) even if they have come in contact with the patches i have on my body. i quit seeing other people because of this condition, because its more embarrassing than anything, and i didn't want anybody thinking i was infected in anyway with something because of it. i don't talk about it with anyone and probably never will. its just something i put up with and have for a long time.

...that its hard to believe that they're an embellishment or her self-favorable recollection of what happened.

Her reaction was obviously flawed.  A seasoned professional would have either excused him immediately OR called the owner of the service and washed her own hands of it entirely.  
Have I ever had a client with a questionable blemish, rash or outright lesion?  Yes.
Would I ever Google examples to support my decision, chit chat, baby talk or CBJ him to show that I am a provider who cares?  Ummm, negative.
BUT Naudia isn't a seasoned professional, she's a new young girl and I think that her story confirms the pattern of manipulation that Wrongly Accused displayed on this very board.

I think that this client was disappointed and immature-and reacted accordingly.  I think that Naudia was rattled and that her manager did probably sense that and got it out of her on the phone.  And I do think that the manager subsequently put the word out on the client-not just because of the rash in question, but because of the fact that he didn't just say "okay, I know that I'm 100% clean-but because you are not comfortable, I'm going to dress, call the owner and see if we can find a resolution".  

Can we all just remember here that this is a 19 year old provider dealing with a probably 40-something year old man?  Can no one else see this power differential and how it could possibly be that she was intimidated and made a series of mistakes in reaction?  Or are we all so warped by the "hobby" that we believe that every 18 year old girl is on par emotionally and academically with every middle aged person that they're working for, with or giving service to?

I think that Wrongly_Accused's situation with the telephone marms was probably fueled by his own reaction to the situation and could have been easily rectified by playing it cool, providing test results etc.  Instead, I think that we can venture a guess that he reacted in the exact same way that he did on TER: sensationalized the situation and made himself a martyr.  

Naudia:  good for you for coming out of the woodwork.  Many agency girls hide during situations like these. Many of us appreciate your side of the story.  I see you with those good reviews -keep having fun and never be afraid to say a definitive, firm NO.

low ????....

Firstly-Foxworthy is not so little and using his handle in the same sentence as name calling him a white knight makes as much sense as declaring Supreme Voted Best in Atlanta for 10 years.

Secondly- Why in the world are you so quick to be the hide-behind-the-alias lambaster of others like Foxworthy when in your own words you are afriad of being lambasted yourself..."Though If I were to do it under my real board name, I would lambasted..."  

Dude- I used illogical, but you know others might find wimp more appropriate or chicken-winnie-hide-behind-alias-lambaster-of-others-who-is-afraid-to-stand-in-the-light-when-attacking-his-victims-because-if-he-used-his-real-name-they-might-lambast-him-back.

Foxworthy the answer to your previous question appears to lie (no pun intended) in the relationship between the quote, "...has spoken" of the original poster and something called payback as evidenced by the reference in CAPS in not just one, but both of Naudia's posts in case anyone missed it the frirst time.  I know, I know, it's not so apparent if one has just finished their daily dose of tequila.


Re: This is CRAP part one
Posted by NaudiaER  , 6/3/2008 2:18:12 PM

A few weeks ago.. I had a one hour session with this GUY."



Re: this is crap part TWO.
Posted by NaudiaER  , 6/3/2008 2:19:07 PM  

GUY.. I'm glad you got everything squared away..


PS Be-Hind-The-Alias-Attacker, not to mean or anything, but if the economy is negatively affecting you current livelihood you could induldge in French providers, see the world and have an awesome career path in the French Army.


-- Modified on 6/4/2008 1:19:41 PM

I'm not concerned with who believes it or not. I said I could lose my job.. and I would rather fail for my honesty than lie for my sucess. I'll take living in a card board box over losing my pride and my word.. any given day of the week friend.

Thank you. It was my second week and he did throw in lines like "It would only take one bad review to make the calls stop.."

Don't mistake my intimidation. At the time, yes, I admit I was thrown off.. I was new.. this has literally been a month ago.. and it re-surfaced here on this board only after the fact that I ignored his request to see me after hours.

Call it a coincidence
and let the entire world trash me.. rip me to peices.. whatever people want..
but you will find me sleeping peacefuly with my actions.
I have proof to back my stance in a form of a message..

yes, he has spoken..
and.. she has spoken.
Let it rest.

For coming out with this information. These types of problems with clients come up more than providers will dislcose. It goes to show that that there are risks with the hobby and one needs to be careful. Providers should get tested once a month and clients tested every 3 months.

For those of you with those ingrown hairbumps downstairs, make sure you see a doctor to get rid of them, lmfao.

I've been a voyeur on this board on and off for the past few years and, until now, have always choosen to stay UTR ... until this thread really pissed me off today!

Nothing in this hobby should be held more sacred than a provider's choice to protect her personal safety! To any of those on this board who feel otherwise, you should find a different way to get your rocks off! There is no foolproof way to protect yourself from STD's aside and, unfortunately, women differentially get the shit-end of the stick when it comes to consequences of these infections. While men get unsightly warts and painful skin eruptions from diseases like HPV and genital herpes (both of which cannot be prevented with a condom), women also have to be concerned with cervical cancer with HPV or transmission of herpes their children during childbirth with HSV, which is often fatal to the newborn. To all the wonderful providers on this board, if you have the slightest suspicion a hobbiest may be putting you at risk, walk away! The fact that Naudia is not a doctor should only make her decision easier to respect - how can she be expected to feel comfortable when confronted with someone who has a rash she suspects is herpes? No amount of money is worth risking your health or piece of mind!

The review system already penalizes providers who are safety conscious by recommending lower ratings who fully protect themselves by offering CBJ rather than BBBJ; keep in mind that the women do take a risk when they provide these services. I like a BBBJTCCIMNQNS as much as any of you but have always respected a woman's decision to use a condom, even when I was expecting a different service based on reviews.

The fact that this incident happened with Naudia and ER only highlight's the pettiness in this thread. Wrongly_Accused: Time to leave the hobby. You are a disgrace to those of us who are respectful of the women here and are just looking for some mutual fun. Having shit-for-brains losers like you around only chases away the wonderful women like Naudia and ruins the experiences for the rest of us. Come back when you've grown up and passed puberty. And if you want credentials for my medical info - I'll be happy to provide you with a copy of my MD, GA License, and board certification anytime.

Go ahead and accuse me of being a white-knight - Naudia doesn't need one! Just meet her once or read her post and you'll know she can take care of herself!

I feel better ... rant over ... back UTR!

I did not mean to anger you. You have a very valid point. I just don't think you should hide behind an alias, thats all. Retarded??? LOL

ROTFLMAO!!!!!! I never have my daily dose of tequila until at least noon.

Naudia, good for you.

Thank You for stepping forward. It is unusual for the real truth to ever
come out in situations like this. I'm glad you had the courage to speak out.

As far as having a job, I have no doubts that not only you will have a job,
but I'll wager (being the gambling man that I am lol) your dance card will
be full for some time to come. You've gone from being on my to do list, to
being way, way up on my to do list.(the fact that you're hot doesn't hurt
either"

WA My suggestion to you is to crawl back under the rock from whence you
came, OR call this young lady a liar, but you had better pack a lunch. As I
said in my previous post, the one and only thing I was sure of is that you
were lying when you specifically said it was not ER.
What do you have to say for yourself? Your actions are a disgrace to the
community. Changing your name,(again) might get the TER community to forget
who you are, but it will never get you off any of the many additional DNS
lists that you will surely find yourself on.

For speaking up and telling your side of the story. One rarely hears providers that soley work for agencies post on the boards.  

When I first saw the thread we only heard the guys side of the situation. I had a feeling there was a lot more to the story.

Why would anybody go to a appoinment with a rash that you described that could be potentially contatgious? You even offered him a cut of the agencies money and he still implied he may give you a bad review. I think the guy owes you and the entire ATl community an apology.

A lot of the younger providers are sometimes critisized for being more conscious
about their health. But, people should remember these young ladies have their whole lives ahead of them and one day probably want to get married and have families too.

If a hobbyist has eczema should they abstain from the hobby. Also, I would like to know if there are any providers that have clients with eczema. Its not contagious but it is a little un-sitely.

I have decided that my initial impression about Naudia was correct. She is a young, but courageous young lady who has the courage to come out and state her side of the story for all to here, and I do take her at her word, until someone credible stands up and calls her a liar. Are you that person?

No you OTOH, are a coward, hiding behind an alias. Just WTF do you think you are, telling the rest of us what to think, all the while hiding behind an alias. If you've got something to say, crawl out from behind that alias and say it, if not then just STFU.

...now wait a minute G-Man does that remind you of anybody you know, like really well?

I swear some of the posts I've read give me the feeling they were made from a throne, others from a roving galatic command and control platform, especially the ones declaring who should apologize for what and consequences for failure to obey such declarations.

So, isn't the point less the nature of telling others what to think and more that one does so standing-up to speak while leaving the Alias shield in the drawer with the diapers, pacifiers, and enlargement devices?

PS - OTOH really threw me at first.  Once I got it, I liked it-good one.

You've only had your morning dose, not your daily dose. Unless you are overacheiving on me. Please don't tell me I have to step up my game, again. lol

Given the way providers react I would say no. You can get a prescription from you doctor to get rid of the condition. It also helps if you stop eating chocolate.

OH man! Now you are talking my language!! I can just see you now in knee socks, white blouse and a short little plaid skirt!!! OMG! I'm going to hell!!!

Thanks pretty lady for your courage. I hope you are part of this community for a long time to come.

Now clean that chalk board! No reach HIGHER! That's right pick up that chalk! Now come sit next to teacher!

are you really willing to provide your medical credentials here anytime?  OK, let's see them

otherwise a good post

Whoever you are I'm happy to see you here. This is not rocket science and any onyone old enough to understand STD's should not have a problem with this ladies actions.

what was written is common sense in my opinion.

I don't "need" to see them - just thought it was sort of funny he stayed UTR for a couple of years then offered to show his identity on top of a perfectly rational post

I was really just smarting off, if you want to know the truth -  

and hope you didn't take offense to my comment because none was intended.  Its just really common sense for me.

very well said naudia

Not going to get involved in the drama at all but for those who have eczema I do feel for you. I have eczema on my arms and legs. I have had it since I was born. Mine is a different form and is not blotchy or red but looks more like razor burn especially on my legs. I lotion like crazy and do tan because that helps with the irritation. If you do have a skin condition don't be afraid to contact a provider to spend time with you just be honest and up front about it before hand and if she refuses to see you please do not threaten her because of her choices.

~Rae

I truly admire your post and intestinal fortitude young lady......

The only thing I can say about this is that none of this would've EVER have happened if you had just asked the GUY to leave IMMEDIATELY after noticing his rash and returned his full donation. No Harm, No foul....no lengthy posts , no threats , just one damaged person....the GUY's. If you had made a more immediate decision , the GUY would've been dealing with Monica instead of you and MAYBE a happier conclusion would have been arrived at....

I could only nod my head when I read this.. and with all the anger you felt writing that imagine mine while I read his inital posts and people's inital replies.. (piss on her.. shove a gun up her ass.. burn down the outcall.. ect)

my claws came out.. and before I wrote I trimmed them the best I could.

Thank you for your support. You kick ass. My kinda man.

Agreed. Thanks for stopping by with unbiased input.

thank you!!

I'm proud to see a lady stand up for herself on here. I know you hate the drama but you have support too.

I do have a client with eczema. He told me about it ahead of time and brought a prescription that is clearly stated is for that skin condition. I have family members with the same condition so I'm not scared of it.

I've had to cancel an appt myself for a skin rash. I tried one of those Veet, no blade, shaving creams. My legs looked all red and splotchy. I called and explained the problem and he agreed that it wasn't a good idea to meet then. Unfortunately since then he's acted like I have the plague. Guess I should have told him I had the flu.. lol.

I see your point and kinda agree , but not all the right info on this type of stuff will ever be disclosed.....whether we like it or not.....