How does one remove a whitelist? A gent I have seen beofre is sending my GF rude and nasty emails and I will not whielist someone with this kind of behavior.  it is so shocking to see his emails and how degrading they are. There is no excuse for this. He has threatened her and called her names and not only will I NEVER see him again BUT I want the whitelist I gave him removed. With the threats he sent her he honestly seems to be a dangerous guy at this point! IDK what happened to him BUT no excuse fro threatening a ladies livelyhood! Not to mention she IS my best friend.
Thanks so much!
Hugs and kisses
TL

...seems there was a discussion about this where it was said you do the same as when you want to white list the guy and there will be an option to undo it.

That is a horrible thing to happen to your best friend...
I would suggest contacting TERsupport whenever there is such a question.

Should I forward his emails to admin? He didnt PM but he did send it from the same email listed with ter.
I dont think any lady desrves to be talked to like this OR threatened to "watch out" and the words " I ought to shut your shit down" are things that shouldnt be taken lightly around here.
Thanks everybody!
Hugs and kisses
TL

I don't understand these people who do that. Obviously, they have issues, but there's no excuse for that. I have some long term providers whom I've parted ways with, but I would never even think of doing anything like that. Good luck with the situation TL.

Myself and my GF know so many wonderful gents and they definitely out weigh the crazies
They are a VERY small minority.
Hugs and kisses
TL

sooner or later ?

$$$$ again, so you are punishing him by removing his whitelist.

pissed I wouldnt see his $$ again I wouldnt have said anything! I dont want to see him again! YES he actually wanted to see my friend! Geez! Why the hell are YOU the one being so rude about this? Funny you sound JUST LIKE THIS GUY! LOL!! He should NOT have sent her emails THREATENING her! Do you REALLY think that should be taken lightly? I am not going to whitelist someone that acts like that. DO you know what a whitelist means? It means I am giving my recomendation that a gent is a GOOD client. Good clients dont go around threatening the ladies. Surely you are not saying that guys that go around acting like this deserve a whitelist? Oh I guess since he has so many reviews thats ok? Its not!
TL

I dont whitelist every client I meet anyway so I am not sure about that. I am more than happy to whitelist a gentleman that has acted like one and was a pleasure. It helps the ladies and gents out BUT I do not whitelist everyone I see. SOme ladies may but all the ones I know do this for the respectable, safe and fun guys.
Hugs and kisses
TL

or is that a little over the "principle" line.

No AND FYI no point in arguing with you. You are obviously trying to start drama when it it senseless to do so. Go get laid and relax! lol
WTH would I have the review deleted? This is not even about a review. Its not even about me! Its about how to remove a whitelist. geez stop trying to start trouble!

Just because we are courtesans does not mean that we will see everyone with a reference and it does not mean that just because you write reviews that you are a respectable gent! Obviously this gent has no problem seeing most if not all ladies that he requests an appointment of. It is enraging that after what this man sent to me he would actually think that I would even consider reading his email and even more upsetting that he would think that I would have forgotten about something of this caliber. It makes me wonder if you are him........................
Xxo
Krystal

But you bringing it here looks like you want attention more than you do a resolution to the matter.  Contacting TER directly would have accomplished the same without all the board drama.

This board hosts both hobbyists and providers and we may not have the power of tagging someone's profile with a review - but we can let each other know who are the assholes among us.  It's not about attention to US but attention to THEM.

I am not understanding what PUNISHMENT removing a whitelist would be.   "You can no longer use me as a reference" - that's not punishment, that's someone managing their references.  Additionally, if a provider's okay was removed from the white list?  No one wouldn't know it unless they kept track of his whitelist referrals - it just wouldn't be there any more.  It's no punishment at all!

TL asked a technical question and got answer helpful to other ladies. That is what board is for, yes she could have gone to admin or providers only board, but question was not out of line.  No different than asking how to remove block user codes.

She did not name the hobbyist, or her friend. Just a fact pattern and a question how she could handle this situation, the drama was caused by hostile attack artist that are norm here anymore.

Had a guy posted a nsnc or late cancel, he would have named the lady, ranted about her failings, and band wagon hate mongers would have piled on with more hate.  In reality she should have named the person who is turning hostile to women, protecting other community members, but that would have been drama creating


Too many people need to grow up, get laid, get real.

I havent seen him IN A  VERY LONG TIME! Hey Im not the bad guy here so NO shame on YOU for trying to start something AGAIN! You must be a very miserable person.
AGAIN go get laid and stop the negative BS with me. You can keep on and on but its only making YOU look bad NOT me.
BTW happy 4th!
Hugs and kisses
TL

Just so wrong.

Shame on you.

Your girl friend.

Just trying to figure out your motive is all.