I tried Ashley Madison for the minium $ to check out...did not meet anyone but had a few chats...also tried Horney Matches. com, same thing a few email exchanges but that is all.  I did have one person who wanted to meet but i was not interested...basically, I think the main problem is that the guys out number the girls by a staggering % and it has been a waste of my time over-all...with that said, I think that there may be better options, such as Adult Friend Finder but there are so many and I do not know which one is best.

I just signed up for Ashley Madison and I have had a few women send me messages which I cannot open until my membership payment gets credited.  I agree that the men outweigh the women by a lot so it is tough to get a bite.  I also was a member of Adult Friend Finder and ended up meeting a lady and having a couple of rendezvous' with her but she was not anything to brag about.  I think I may have put the membership money toward a girl on here.