when choosing a provider, is there certain things that you look for?

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I read the reviews to get a handle on how the session goes.CIM is a high criteria for me but not absolute. Now it helps if looks and performance are high.

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Hi Joe:

Difficult to pinpoint.  Usually a hot pair of legs attached to a lady who can be fun to be around.  Beyond that hard to pin down.  I think, to me. it comes down to how a woman moves me when I see her.  I know kinda funky.

Let's take the recent M&G for example.

1. The young, very friendly, girl. Ok, the behavior left something to be desired. But to give her some cred, a great little body ad could be some fun.  There is no contact information on her, so end of that road.

2. Many ladies at the M&G that were fantastic, I will be kept up in bookings for quite some time.  Two very good exaamples;

Alivia - she gave off the impression that could go either way, the serious hot and sweaty or the intense passion route.  It was just the air she put forward.

Skylar. Oh my, I saw her and that dress and I could see noting else. For me, she took up the room in that moment. That woman has legs.  I could have just played the fantasy of "oh my can I put my hands around certain places". Now, ok, that was impolite. And she perhaps would have slapped me uncoonsious for the suggestion. But to, it come down to how does the presense of a woman motivate a man.  I was motivated.  Poor, Skylar.

Beyond that, I like a great pair of legs, a preety face is good, Can she be fun.  Boobs don't matter to me.  Can she be playful when I say can I look up the skirt dear.  Lots of little things.

There were others there that cast different spells.  Example Bre. Now Bre impresd me as someone who can take a guy to a whole different place sexually. Now, I might have a heart attck in the process. I could see me explaining it "well, you see sir, there was this girl, her name was Bre, and she had these notions. Well what could I do?? I never say no to a lady. Especially to a lady with naughty notions...."

Hard to say on the criteria. Legs for playful. Shame that one girl was a jerk, she had possibilities. Yeah, I would take her for a spin, too.

It is challenging to find a provider without ink. So one or two is ok as long as it is small and discreet. Don't like it when the girl has some dude's name inked in her tits. Its hard to buy into the GFE with that site.

Also inked art takes away from the sweet GND look that I love.

Shaved kitty is easy to find which I am grateful. If a lady looks like chewabacca down there then it is a no go for. I don't mind a landing strip.

I look for young college spinners mostly. Think of Girls Gone Wild videos. I haven't seen any commercials for those lately. I guess it has gone all online video streaming now.

Hobby guys or gals that meet my likes.  

Physically I like athletic body types 5 foot to 5'8 tall
Brunette, natural tits, 32 year old max, shaved, decent intelligence
Is preferred but not mandatory.  

I look for girls who have performance and appearance ratings of at least eight or greater.  The ad or website must include real photos. I prefer thinner, non-smoking girls with nice breasts and BBBJ is a plus but not a requirement if Oral skills are rated highly.  Race/ethnicity is irrelevant.  $250/hour or less.  
May sound a little picky, but there are a few women I see on a regular basis that meet all these criteria.  (Currently UTR so don't ask.)  Therefore, I see no reason to pay more for anything less. The only exception I make is when I go to certain K style agencies here in Atlanta that provide outrageously gorgeous women with skills to match on a rotating basis for only a slightly higher fee.

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Is nice hair and a pretty smile. For some reason nice hair has always been very attractive to me. Then I read the reviews. I really like ladies that are very laid-back, down-to-earth and just like to have a very relaxed, fun time and have some laughs.

I love women of all different shapes and sizes.  I love their different hair colors and different skin colors.  
I love their different smells and different tastes.  I love their different experiences and different expectations.  I love their different backgrounds and different goals.  I love their different accents and voices.  I love their different levels of passion and erotic behavior.  

This is one of the main reasons I started the 'hobby'.  To experience many different women and explore an intimate encounter with them.  

I could list some preferences and most definitely have some physical attributes I look for, but in the grand scheme of things, I just love women.

The only reason I'm in this hobby is because the frequency went way down, oral sex became a thing of the past, and she put on quite a bit of weight (but still has a very pretty face).  But I'm not into anal or CIM/facials/(or anywhere else), and I've learned that the performance scores are capped at 9 for providers that can suck dick like a champ and fuck like nobody's business but don't allow for what I'll call the porn-star extras.  Which means, as long as performance is above 8, I don't care.  So, I look for high marks for appearance, BBBJ and shaved kitty (which turns out to be just about everyone), and under 40.

Until this year, I had a firm cap set at $300, and saw some of the hottest women around (thank you, Atlanta).  Alas, I've bumped that up to $350 now, given some of the price creep we've seen.

Step 1: For location search for greek.
Step 2: Ignore providers with few reviews.
Step 3: Ignore anything below an 8 by 8 in the review scores.
Step 4: Flip between with and without swallow finish (sometimes with swallow is too limiting, but if there are lots of hits, then WITH wins every time); same time as this step look at website to see if she is attractive to me.
Step 5: Start reading reviews to determine attitude and consistency.
Step 6: Workout logistics of day, time, location, etc.
Step 7: Do all the same with a back up (because even reliable providers are not reliable)
Step 8: Do all the same with a back up for the back up (because shit happens, especially in provider world)

I also add unique attributes sometimes at step 4, maybe I see a Japanese girl meets my basic needs, and I haven't had one yet, so she gets to the top of the list.  Or maybe in a review there was sometime unique that she does that I want to experience.

But what I don't do, is fuck anything with legs and a heart beat . . . when money is involved.  I don't pay to fuck anything less than a high 8 (with 10 skills)

And also gives a great BBBJ lol

AT least most guys I would consider trusting their reviews.There are a couple of guys that I totally ignore every word.

Scores are subjective to me, what I may consider to be an 8 is someone else' 10, and the performance score is exactly the same way. Also I take into account the fact that an excellent performance can give an artificially induced higher appearance score....It may sound shallow, but I compare web pics with the first time I lay eyes on a lady, and that is where my appearance score is set...doesn't matter if she can suck a golf ball thru an IV tube, or has all "yes" in every column of her profile... What I see is what she gets. Her enthusiasm in performing, without obvious fakery is where the performance number is set.  

I study reviews sometimes for days before I will decide, sometimes I read 3-4 and make the call, once I find what works best for me, I stick with them or keep a steady "rotation" of ladies who I can call pretty much anytime.

As someone stated above the reviewers I trust makes a big difference. Given that I need BBBJCIM and on the summary page say NO, yet when I read the reviews they say she does. Wish we could work on that.

Sweetheart... I would never slap you! I actually like a good mindf$@k ...tell me whatever you want! I love creativity and dirty talk!  Thank you BTW! I love my legs as they are my bffs! However, sometimes they do have to part though

When the providers profile has their age as 31-35 and when you meet them they are clearly in their 40's.

I guess I need to fess up. I mentioned you more than once in other posts and messages as being one of the three main stories of the M&G.  Also, the one, who in my mind,  made the most favorable impression among the providers.  I could mention the talk of between a new friend that I made of one of the clients, just about that topic, but it would take up way too much space.

 

Natural boobs. I won't not see someone with fakes, but I love natural boobs and all of their glorious softness lol. Also, nice feet. Must be a non-smoker and if there is any smell from the crotch, I instantly become impotent by design lol.