so i've been doing FBSM, for about four months so far now. And honestly everything has been greet. TER has been a huge help. The guys i meet are so sweet, their gentle, intelligent, kind, older and generally just the kind of men i love to spend my time with.

Well tonight, everything came crashing down.

This seemingly normal guy calls to make a date and spend an hour together. He sounds articulate, intelligent, calm and normal. I ask his age/name, everything checks out. I do a quick check on him, everything seems fine enough. He's an out of town guy, here on business... typical.

So i invite him over, he's running about ten minutes late but no biggie. I'm in no huge rush. he pulls up and just waits outside for like five minutes, i think its a little odd but i let it go. I give him a call and let him know its safe to come inside, he comes inside. Watching him walk up he looked like a typical guy, cute bomber jacket, jeans, curly brown hair, tall lanky, and a pretty handsome guy honestly.

Well, here is where everything just goes down hill. He comes inside and i immediately notice the smell of smoke (not cigarettes btw, a plant) and it seriously makes me gag. I hate the smell of smoke, i don't smoke and i don't like it a bit. I give him a hug and i have to turn away because the smell is so strong. I wanted to ask him to leave, and i should've. I just didn't know how.

So i lead him to my room, i have to ASK for the $ (very awkward to do. he gets undressed, lies down. i do the same and try to begin the massage and get it over with, quickly. And as i'm massaging him, i notice the smell of alchol. Another bright red flag that he should go, i don't drink personally, i don't mind if other people do but this guy seemed tipsy. He could barely keep his eyes open. He's rambling on about this and that.... ugh.

So our time finally ends, when i tell him he just shakes his head ok and gets up. I did start to feel bad at this point honestly. I guess my womanly/motherly instincts kicked him, because as i watch him get dressed, he looked sad. So i helped him get dress, and gather his things and i gave him a really warm hug. He told me that he was sorry about the smoking, he could tell i didn't like it. I felt bad about that really. Darn my emotions.

Well we head back downstairs so he could go, and he reaches in his pocket and hands me a tip equal to the price of the massage. He says he'll call tomorrow, i say ok.

Drunk guy who smokes?

I am not sure how you log that one under terrible..lol......This happens all the time in this Business....The guy was nice and left you a tip the size of his donation....Once again I am not seeing how that was terrible.

  Sure he could of showed up not drunk or high, but then again he most likely would not have tipped you. I understand that you dont like smoke or alchohol. You will have many more appointments like this....if you let it happen. The thing is he will probally be one of the most respectful drunk guys(the one you saw) out there according to you.

Sheesh, I thought you were going to say he hit your or you were assaulted or something.  It sounded like a "difficult" experience but certainly not "terrible".  He was embarrassed and you both made the best out of a less than ideal situation.  Truthfully, it just didn't sound all that bad to me.

I'm really having difficulty with your characterization of this as terrible.  Seems to me that this is closer to normal than terrible.  I mean, you should expect that there will be lots of guys who you may not click with... don't like their beer gut, their breath maybe isn't minty, their short, their tall, their whatever, including the vices you mention.  But that's just part of the deal that you sign on for when you go forward with a session.  Sounds to me like you were compensated quite well for your time and you owed it to him to give him the best "experience" that you could.

Geesh.... if I could pick my customers and not have to deal with those who had traits I didn't like, wouldn't the world be fun.  Just my 02...

Are you sure you really want to be in this business?

It doesn't sound like you are really cut out for this. Your reviews are lackluster at best, and your post doesn't describe anything that comes even close to being a "Terrible" experience.

My advice to you is to rethink your decision to being a provider, frankly after reading your post and your reviews I would never even consider booking with you.

i think that my story came off harsh and i didn't mean for it too. I've just never experienced anything like that so far, i thought it was ok to share, I'm a newbie guys, i make mistakes.

I do enjoy this business honestly, and i do pretty well i think. but i am still learning, and getting better, so i think my reviews will too.

Every guy that i meet i really do have a good time with, and i've made great friends too. But it was rude of me to talk so badly about the guy, he actually did seem like a nice person.

so... in conclusion, i hope you all don't stay mad at me for too long , and Gagambler maybe you'll change your mind about that one day

Thanks for all the help guys

and only you can determine if this business really is for you.

That said, I stand by my opinion. After reading your reviews and your OP, it really doesn't seem like you have the temperment for this business.

I hope I am wrong, and I hope you have not only success, but happiness as well. One sad fact about this business is that there are many more frogs than princes. It's not a business for the overly sensitive or the easily offended.

I don't agree with you.  I've seen Natalie post quite a bit on the newbie board and it seems like she's putting a great effort into learning and doing her best.  I also glanced at her reviews and although not good, it was clear in both of them that FS was expected even though she's clear in her ads and website that it's not on the menu.  That said, I didn't think her experience, related here, was all that bad and she should expect those things to happen in the future and learn how best to deal with them.

I personally think that any man shows up stinky ,drunk and or high is a jerk!! Just my .02

I agree.  I kinda feel bad for the guy who came to you.  You sound like a nut!

Yeah, dufus...that would be the point.
Duh