How do we protect our providers & substantiate that we are a valid client and not a bad guy?

Now more than ever, we have to be careful. No PROVIDER OR CLIENT wants any undesireable heat. What is the most efficient way?

In the last month,I have attempted to see (Loni,Genesis,and Vivica Rayy)in all three cases I was not successful in passing the verification process in a timely manner that would allow for a mutually beneficial visit.

I do have recent references, Chanel & Belle--formerly a Loni girl,who mentioned she was starting school in the fall and just this week I noticed that her ads have disappeared.

Just today--10 days after my request for a visit-- I was told by 1 of the providers that she reached Chanel & that Chanel was not 100% sure that she remembered me.(A provider has no incentive to verify unless she is 100% sure. What provider wants to feel responsible for unwittingly setting up a fellow provider)

Who could blame a popular provider for not remembering every client? *Was John's last name Smith or Jones???

I don't believe I gave her much information to go on. Plus, I obviously do not qualify as one of the self proclaimed stallions that have recently been giving reviews.

This process costs providers $ and clients opportunities.

Is thier an entrepenuer in our group that can create a program that pre-qualifies clients & providers. I would gladly pay a fee for a code or # that I could give to a provider who could be confident in who she was seeing. The providers might even be willing to pay a modest fee for a safe immediate response (like an instant credit rating)rather than losing an appointment.

Please do not take my request lightly because I chose not to post reviews. I welcome all suggestions.

THANK YOU TO THE ENTIRE TER GROUP FOR YOUR CONTRIBUTUIONS TO THIS SITE. I PERSONALLY RECEIVE MANY TIMES MORE VALUE FROM THE SITE THAN MY MEGER MONTHLY INVESTMENT.

Bill

once in a while, can't get to board meetings, and/or aren't famous on the board.  How can an independent remember every client?  Sort of makes the case for agencies.  Yet agencies and agency ladies vary in quality.  
At the same time creating any type of database is not good for anyone long term.  
Hard problem to solve.  
Maybe the only way is to try to do/wear something distinctive when seeing independents in order to be remembered easier.

of "Date Check" or "Room Service 2000" ?

If i cant remember a guy i have the lady to get the guy to contact me .. usually that works.. something great or silly usually happens to jog my memory ..
Point to be taken.. when you see us make it a memory we wont forget ...

I can remember names; it's the one thing I'm good at; on the rare occasion I do not, jog my memory a bit, tell me something about my incall, a beauty mark, something specific only gents who have seen me know.

Many gents just think a Peter, Paul, or David will do....Um, no; it will not.  If you did not pass 3 verification processes, maybe there wasn't enough information given.  

I never tell a provider I have seen a gent if I am not 100% sure.  I'll ask her to get more info, have him phone me; whatever...

I will say this; if the provider reference you give me is unreliable, unreviewed, or unknown, I will ask for more information.  Those who know me know I also have a beginning career in real estate; I don't want to jeopardize that, either...

Let's help each other out...and do understand; sometimes providers do not return calls/emails for references...

Regards,

Sofia Danila

P.S.  Many of us use Date-Check, Room Service, and Epic Dreams also has where ladies can give gents codes to post reviews/use for verification...

If a guy has seen me then he should know what poster is hanging above my bed.. what I have in my bedroom and who my favorite baseball team.. or at least my favorite all time player is..
i have used this information with lots of ladies when I go out of town and am hard to reach.. any ladies that want the scoop on what the answers are just let me know.. I have not had this lil idea of screening to fail me yet..
hugs kisses and good hard sex.. deanna

I agree with both Sofia and Deanna...If I don't remember, I usually also have the client call me and that usually does it.......I remember by what the client does and looks like.......I too will be real cautious when giving a reference to a provider that I have never heard about nor has reviews....I will always watch out for my client above all........Lets all work together and be safe...........

Terri

for a provider, or applying for a job, or renting an apartment, etc

YOU SHOULD ALWAYS CONTACT THE PERSON BEING USED AS A REFERENCE FIRST!!!! (shouting intentional)

If you have just made contact with the person you're using as a reference, then there is very little chance that person isn't going to remember who you are.

As to the "verification services", why would any one think that members of LE, or informants for LE, can't manage to get through the service's screening process and get listed as "approved" members?  Just because most LE isn't well paid doesn't mean they're all stupid.

gotta love what you said about the togetherness..
we are all sisters here .. lets act like it lol

Duh, do you remember me??? I remember you, you're a doll Lucille, your sister Danila's OK too!!! LOL... soft skin!

Joc u are right about LE and I have always said it in the past and stand by it, even though yes we need the screening process, don't forget for a min girls that LE can and will get by whatever screening u have if they really want to get to you...We as providers need to stop fighting each other and being vindictive toward one another...We are all in the same business and there is plenty out there for everyone, but we do need to protect each other instead of turning on each other.....Just my 02...Have fun but be safe everyone!! That is the golden rule!!

Terri

A copper used a lady as a reference I knew she was outta country so I didnt bother to contact.. and it didnt seem strange cause I had seen alot of the same people..
somehow (reviews) they knew that and I fell for it ..
dont you ladies do the same

Wow...
 I have been trying to set up an appt with Genesis and am currently going through the same experience.  I was also thinking how there should be a database or code we could use to verify our intentions.

The current situation is a lose-lose for all involved.

Just another reason I try to correspond via email (sometimes for a few weeks) before setting up an appointment. Usually during all this time I will have told her something that is quite unique so that she will remember me by it.

That all the providers that I see on a regular basis always seem to quit the business.  Wait a minute!! (looking in mirror); (checking size); (sniffing under armpits).  Naw, I couldn't be THAT BAD

I think Room Service is a great thing for clients, its a one time $50 and some reputable providers, such as myself, give you a $25 discount off your initial visit. This is a safe safe and discreet verification company. Anyone that is serious or has a tendency to see "fly by" unheard of girls should really utilize this service. It is good nationwide and forever, there isn't a renewal process at all.
RoomService2000.com

Jessicathedivine.com--is currently under construction
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I think the client in question should ask his provider to call the provider that he wants to see. tyvm, P.T.