The same thing just happened to me.  I also have an UNATTAINABLE list - and I recently was in contact with my #1 UNATTAINABLE.  The special word came up, and I hope to book her this week.  

Maybe we ARE just silly men then?

Good question? I am very surprised by the young ladies reply. I have always been under the impression that typically ladies don't want to be bothered by guys looking for deals, discounts or specials.

I have been under the impression that if a lady sets her fees at an un-attainable level for the average hobbyist, it was because she only wanted to see the upper echelon. I don't get into the fees discussion with ladies. I feel it is disrespectful to negotiate so I just don't contact them. I guess I may be losing a lot of opportunities if what your young lady indicates is wide spread. I know what my normal budgetary limit is and I don't break it often although I have for certain ladies.

Willy

I love it!

I really love to hear that someone has been having fantasies about being with me! Actually, it really turns me on!
You know me... I thrive on the fantasy and the passion that builds.

Dare I say I have quite the list of ladies I'd love to experience some time with as well!  

On the other hand I have some hobbyists who have made it on my little list of guys I find truly interesting from their board posts or reviews.

I definitely have lists like this too. Oddly enough, there is a girl that has been on my Wish List and I think I may be close to having one of my wishes come true.
A

Every time I get on this site I feel like my wish list grows longer and longer.

makes it fun.

Life is not a series of planned events.

Life is a series of spontaneous adventures!!

With a few exceptions I've met most of the ladies on my bucket list. It's my wish to see them more often and for more than a few hours. I'd like nothing more than a three or four day getaway to a beautiful beach with a beautiful lady, but that would blow my hobby budget for an entire year!