the purpose for writting a review is to add to the data base. Do you want a credible one or not? I know there is a lot of BS in that data base right now by is that an excuse for making it worse with more BS? I like being able to be taken at my word for an accurate statement. Are you really an "Alpha" or just another mediocre follower of the crowd?
Ladies and gents, looking for opinions on giving 10/10 reviews. I've only given one 10/10 in my decades of hobbying because i've always understood it to be an experience that is literally once in a lifetime. Yet i see a lot of reviewers giving multiple 10/10s. How can a person give a "once in a lifetime" rating more than once in a lifetime? Am I misunderstanding how the rating system is supposed to work?
... if you were a Virgin prior to your first P4P / hobby experience, you are allowed two.
Qualification: I have no doubt there are many 10s in performance out there, but guys/gals, if we are honest with ourselves, there just aren't any Providers (okay, maybe one or two) that would rate a 10 in appearance and only a very few 9s if we are true to the grading scale that a 9 is "model material".
So, if you have had a true 10/10 experience, then congratulations - you've had a rare experience indeed. But if you think you've had another 10/10 in this lifetime, well you probably were a Virgin before that first 10/10 and need to get out more often.
I just posted up my 120th review. Absolutely beautiful lady and truly wonderful time. She offered anything you could want. She could suspend reality for a moment and make you forget the service element of the time and perfectly engaged in the fantasy request I placed before the scheduling.
But I could not give her a 10, and honestly could not quite explain why. I went back and looked at the other tens I have experienced in the past. There was one thing about each one - I could recall EVERYTHING about the session, in some cases many years later. They were with Ladies who I WANT to see many times. And more importantly, they found a way to get totally past my scarcasm, cynicism, and jaded views and connected. I can vividly remember their eyes.
If you use your TER tools right, treat women with respect, focus on mutual pleasure - it is easy to experience many 9's. If the lady puts just a little bit of compassion into her lust/passion, she will rarely score under an 8. But a 10, those are NOT once in a lifetime, but they are lifetime memories.
Ladies can offer a 10 occasionally. And performance will vary. I have written reviews for ladies that scored a 10 and later I scored a 9. Inverse is also true, first time a 7 and later offered 10 session.
Thank you to all the ladies on the board I have seen or we are flirting/planning on seeing. Even those of you who I will likely never see due to differences in preferences, temperment, or availablity, deserve thanks and appreciation. It is the chance to share experiences with you that make this hobby fun.
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The TER ratings are subjective to a degree. Don't worry too much about it. It's not as if your a judge in the Olympics. Just trust your judgment and be fair when reviewing and scoring.
and I've said in the past I think it has a lot to do with where you as an individual in your hobby expereince. What works for me today may not have worked in the past. The performance rating system here is not subjective but the appearence rating sytem is. I've reviewed less than half the ladies Ive enjoyed over the years and have had the pleasure of experiencing several that I rated or would have rated, had I reviewd them, as 10/10 experiences. If in your eyes she is a 10 in looks then it is what it is.
If in your life time you only had one 10/10 experience and you found she had an identicale twin sister who you had the pleasure of seeing and she rocked your world as her sister did would she qualify too based on your expereince. So you can have more than one. My point is don't get too caught up in what is PC correct here and don't be intimidated by others to score. Do it based on how you feel, how you see things and where you are in your hobby expierence. If you are here long enough I promise it will change from season to season.
Thats my opinion fwiw.
I posted about this also on a thread below. One mans 9 could be anothers 7, also a 7 maybe a 9 in my eyes. I all depends on what you like and what is beautiful to you.
I agree 100% with what LD has stated.
I also think that as a tool, the review system is and always has been at its best, a less than perfect tool for the hobbyist to use. For me I read a review and then I go look at the reviewer’s history of reviews. I learn a lot about who I have similar tastes with, who is just reviewing for membership and who is dumbstruck by every woman they meet. I have also learned in 20+ years of doing this not to judge a book by the cover. Some of my very best sessions have been with ladies whose scores were not 9's and 10's in looks but whose performance and, more importantly, personality were 9's and 10's.
If one does their homework and is willing to think with their big head and not their little one, they can have a very high batting average. If someone is a bargain shopper, doesn't check reviews and reviewers then they will have less than experiences.
Remember that also I am looking for a different experience than someone who is shopping BP typically. I am looking for class, beauty, personality and great sex. What I refer to as the courtesan experience. Some guys just want to go in and bang away, get a nut and go. No judgment on either, we just have differing preferences.
Just have fun and don't worry about what everyone else is doing.
Willy
This is what these ladies do for a living. They provide pleasure, and the few anomalies aside, chances are pretty high that they've been doing it for a while. That being the case, I don't see why it would be so unlikely for someone who plays in this hobby to experience lots of "once in a lifetime" experiences. I think you're misunderstanding how this business works.
take your time and look for the ones who you find to be the most attractive ? I've asked the question before on the GD board. What do the majority of you guys who've been on here for years go by when rating appearance; how these girls compare to each other or all women in general. If it's all women in general then compared to the Ford Modeling Agency the numbers here should stop at 6 or 7 right ? And that's kind of BS considering how many work their butts off to stay looking hot so many hobbyist can taste a finely tuned woman once in awhile and make their life at home with the Buffalo heifer more tolerable.
I've also read it posted several times by one of the big dogs that a guy's review is his review. It's not yours to critique. If he said she's a 10 then that his biz.
My first one on here was 10/10 but I did it for several reasons which i clearly stated in the review. and I'm not the 30 y/o virgin the know it all goes on about. To date I have been in roughly 60 countries and I paid for my first woman at 18 in the Philippines. The only time I need to pay for it is overseas. I do it here because it's fun to be a degenerate and also because my hot G/F couldn't give a good BJ if her life depended on it.
What would a Ford guy rate a Chevy and vice versa ?
Other guys on a hooker review site ? I'll admit that I've been an ass on here in the past but at least I know it and I'm lightening up so right now I'm really trying to figure this one out. Do you honestly sit there and worry about what some other Hobby guy will think of you before you click on that number ? Maybe I've been an alpha in a world loaded with other alphas too long to undertstand that. The only time I would care what other guys think of me is if I failed to do my job and somebody was hurt because of it.
the purpose for writting a review is to add to the data base. Do you want a credible one or not? I know there is a lot of BS in that data base right now by is that an excuse for making it worse with more BS? I like being able to be taken at my word for an accurate statement. Are you really an "Alpha" or just another mediocre follower of the crowd?
But you basically ruined yourself.
As to your first question it's important to write them. It's the first thing I look at because I got tired of duds. My point was simple. Why would you worry about what some other hobbyst is going to think about your review or what number you rate her. Why not write it based on what you think.
only posting that anybody belives is what the alias says.......just go on deluding yourself alphaBS
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an alias poster who's only writing people belive is his alias...........
When you meet someone who you believe is a once in a lifetime beauty with a once in a lifetime meeting, you don't expect that to be topped but sometimes that happens and the second lady shouldn't get a lower score just because u already gave one. Beside there are different types of once in a lifetime beauties and different types of once in a lifetime performances.
Please someone explain to me this obsession over "30 year old virgins" and this supposed proclivity to giving out 10 10s? I missing something? For one thing any guy by the time he is 30 has at least fallen into some pussy even if he's the biggest tool around. Unless maybe you are talking about yourself?
WTF difference does it matter to you? Except to throw mud from the closet. Your claim of being the only true, honest, objective reviewer is as worthless as the 10/10's you now rail against. Again......have some f**kin' balls and get rid of your alias. THEN.....maybe we'll listen.
Or maybe not.
My first 10/10? I'll admit I was blown away by the hobby as much as the girl. And I'll admit, if I could go back, in hindsight, I'd probably change a couple. But not all of them. Cause listen......Little Miss Alias.......you will never know your "one in a lifetime" til you've had your last!
So if I meet a beautiful young lady, I'm going to grade her on my standards, not yours. Cause after all....no one really knows what yours are.....only what you say they are.
I neither claimed to be "...the only true, honest, objective reviewer.." nor claim to grade according to "my" standards. The TER guidelines are there to be used, knucklehead, not for each of us to set our "own standards", which you obviously have and they are not very high.
My very valid point is that a reviewer, such as yourself, that has, for example, 25 reviews, and of those 25 16 were "Once In a Lifetime" in Appearance; and 9 were "Model Material"!!! Fuck and alas dude, all you're telling your fellow hobbyists is that you've never had civilian pussy!
The point of the reviews, I thought, was to help your fellow hobbyist make informed decisions, not over rate every Provider's appearance in order to curry favor with them. A rose by any other...
Well Said!!! Alias's (except the extremely funny ones) are L-A-M-E! In my opinion Once in A Lifetime is a uniqueness that a woman pocesses that you can't find in anybody else.
P.S I'm baaaaack! 
Wow, wp! I only asked a sincere question and I'm not using an alias. Why did it make you so mad?
I posted this on another board in response to the OP's original post.
I looked at your scores. To your credit....and unlike the pussy aliases here, you are man enough to not hide behind an alias.
So you've given out ONE 10/10.
But I also see you haven't seen any of the elite ladies on TER. What will you do when, say, you meet Brigette Adair. Or Sophie. Or Edrienne, Or Halle.
"SORRY GIRLS....I've already given out my one 10/10. You may blow her away....but sorry, I just can't honestly score you what you deserve. Hope you understand."
Geez.....There are TWO forms of rules. One is a federal statute. Non-negotiable. The rest are some lesser form of guidelines or policy. To which, I do believe, there is a well known item called "Exception to Policy."
Therefore, if you've already given out your only "Lifetime 10/10"...what do you do? To then grade ladies who are deserving at a lower score distorts the system as much as over grading.
TER Guidelines of "One in a Million" should guide one to believe they have been overwhelmed. It's between the hobbyist and the lady. If I'm not correct, there's a new Playmate of the Year every year, right? Let's see....that mean's there's almost 60 of them. Not a million...60. Who could argue they are not all ten. Key element here: who is doing the judging.
Lighten up. Enjoy the ladies we meet.
Man, I appreciate your opinion, but I think you're the one who needs to lighten up. I was only asking an honest question. Not meaning to offend anyone. Just trying to understand how my fellow hobbyists view a 10/10 rating. Apologies for upsetting you.