Apparently lots of guys are jacking off before their dates and the ladies aren’t happy  

so he can ride the mare longer, while the mare wants to buck the rider as soon as possible.

Switter shut down a while ago I thought? anyway..... so much of those things are posted by ladies who seem to have an open contempt for their clientele. That sort of negativity is not what I do this for so I try to stay away from it.

Was using the expression for SW Twitter just as a sort of abbreviation  

Hell - I abstain for a week or 10 days prior to a playdate. I then do my multiplication tables backwards in my head during the encounter  using 4 digit numbers. I can last for hours and when I finally go off it’s massive.🤪