I'd like to first start off and say that it has been a while since I have been in the hobby. I've had a fair share of friends with benefits to success on BP (limited at best). This setup worked well for a good 5 years, but both have dried up. So, I'd thought I'd try my hand in the Atlanta scene once more, and specifically with a provider that I have used successfully over the years. I first asked if there was a way of having an outcall out where I live, an hour and a half away from Atlanta, and she said that was too far. I get that, and have no problem with it. I decided to schedule one of her beautiful ladies for today (scheduled on Tuesday), since this week was time off from work and this provider was only available on Thursdays and Fridays. Well, what I thought was a thumbs up through communication two days before became this long drawn out, slow response on the day of. Come to find out, she did not have my phone number on file, but I was only told 15 minutes away from the scheduled time (mind you, I have to drive an hour and a half one way to start, so it's obvious something fell through). At this point, should I be blaming myself for being inactive from the Atlanta scene for so long? This wasn't the first time I was not on file with her either, but the last couple of times went smoothly without a hitch. Should I be pissed off in a wasted day due to the slow communication or should I have some patience in the matter? I'm sure this could have been addressed prior to the day of and I wouldn't be in such a bad mood. What do y'all think?

I'd be pissed especially if I had seen this provider turned madam in the past.
She should have rescreened on the getgo or refused you.

Go ahead and name her.

Jasmine.

At the end of the day, an agency really wants to sell time - so a communication error would seem most likely.  But shit happens.

Read back through your email.

Yes, IF she had actually confirmed the night before, I would be royally pissed.  On the other hand - if she had not actually replied - "we are good to go tomorrow from  9:00 to 11:00; cross street is Spring at 10th, call 555-1212 when you get there" or something really specific like that, I would not have gotten in the car to begin with.  

IF she confirmed and you replied "Great - looking forward to it at 9 AM tomorrow" then that's under the heading of seriously fucked up.

On the other hand - if she did not specifically confirm - then that's on you.  Lesson learned.  Drop it and go on with your life.  

Regardless, it's time to move on - at this point, you and the agency are probably not going to get along- there are a number of agencies in town.... and independents.  Call them.

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I fully agree, which is why I am more shocked in what happened than anything else.  
    We had a date and time confirmed, and I guess I went wrong when I assumed that she did not know the location up until the last minute (she has multiple locations these days). It's hard for me to be completely responsible for this, since I did not want to be pushy and things didn't help with her responses being spaced a good 3 to 4 hours a part. But yes, outside of location, date and time was scheduled.   At this point, I'm not sure when the next time will be. This week off of work was perfect for setting this up, and going back to work along with the 3 hours of driving plus time with a provider, independent or not, might not be possible for quite some time.

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Wait a minute. Is this not a review site? Should we delete all the bad reviews? Should we not give the other side a chance to speak their side/rectify the situation? Why should bridges be burned? This site solely exists to bring quality to this market. Should I feel bad for posting this? I feel that the things could and should have gone better.

Consider the prior discussion of more of a shock towards the service. The many times I used this service before, the service and the ladies were phenomenal. You can see that in my reviews. The reason why I posted it here was to get input from others along with possible things that I may have missed that happened over the years I was away. I feel that the way I was treated was vastly different than before, and it concerns me, and I feel like it needs to be addressed.

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Had roles been reversed and they have been before.
That being said the fact you've had good experiences with this agency before (and that it was an agency whcih dont usually tend to be flaky) I would reach out to them and try to rectify or just move on, don't think it burning bridges is in order, mistakes and errors happen from time to time even with the best effort to avoid it!  
xoxo
Lexi

But what happens when she adds a new girl he really wants to see? With the hard feelings he has burned that bridge. I think I would have put more effort into trying to work things out personally first. Discussed the circumstances and then let her know she had a chance to make things right by him or then he would have no other choice than to take it to the board.   just my .02 cents