See a provider, have great time. She appears to, as well. Even contacts you afterwards to thank you and say hope to see you again. You contact her. It takes weeks for her to get back with you. Can't make schedules match up that time. Reach again again-no reply.  I realize School is out now and she has responsibilities. But it may be time to forget about rematch. But damn, she made some hot promises for next appointment.

I had a lady that I'd liked to see go dark for a couple of months. She was still checking into her P411 profile so I figured it was just me.  She popped back up and we got to get together a few times and then she went dark again.

Be patient and enjoy it if it happens don't worry about it.

.....don't get attached.

I've seen a few providers multiple times, and two of them more than that. In each case, it seemed like by the third or fourth date, my good nature was being taken for granted. They weren't working as hard to please me.

I now am watching for this, and will just stop seeing the woman if I see that things are being taken for granted.

Write and ask her to call you when she is back on call and ready to meet. She obviously has something going on that is taking her away from being with you. It doesn't matter what it is.  Relax and wait for her to contact you. Never pursue a woman who is distancing herself from you.

But telling me to relax is probably fruitless. Maybe it's my OCD.

I have walked away from more than one lady that I used to see frequently. To each his own...

You definitely shouldn't take it personal.  If you know that she has familial obligations you have to allow her the space to prioritize them without feeling personally slighted if she goes rogue.  Low to no pressure is key to keeping good chemistry simmering.  Relax, it sounds like she will come around!

get over it this is a business. Most of the providers are trying to make a living.  Move on to the next one.  There is someone  right around the corner that will make you forget about her

I've been trying to see Heidi Mueller for years. Been screened and she either has canceled or no responded. Oh well, I moved on although I still have hopes that one day may happen.

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