If a provider were to send you a PM  or email saying she had read your reviews and  thought you 'd be good together and she wants to bang your eyes out, what would you do ?

the provider pm you for a pay4play or pm you because she think she might
like to go out with you then fuck your brains out like a bunny rabbit?

I've never been offered a freebie. Not that I would turn it down, but I get why a beautiful young woman would fuck this overweight , middle-aged fart.

When did TER start having reviews of mongers?

That's exactly what I did the few times a provider reached out to me, checked the reviews and pics and scheduled some fun time. It seems the practice is largely viewed as taboo by the rank-and-file here but I find it to be a turn on. As a matter of fact I just received a PM from a provider here a few days ago. When I checked her out it surprised me that I had not even noticed her before, and I am going to be seeing her soon.

"Dear Sucker",

No disrespect

I love electronic flirting. Just wondering what other guys thought about it. I mean, like I said, check her reviews and pics and carry on....if interested.

And as long as the opening was a discreet way to see if it was ok to chat or via PM here I like it.  To me it screams someone who enjoys their job looking for a kindred spirit for a little more fun.  It's not a regular thing, but the few times it's happened I have enjoyed hell out of the ensuing session.

I apply the sexual harassment standard, if it's unwanted and you make that understood and it stops, no harm, no foul. If it's an attempt to drum up some business that's okay, if it's professional curiosity that's okay too. As long as it's not invasive; let's just all play nice.
I certainly have booked appointments with ladies outside my normal 'type' because of attitudes exhibited here on the discussion board. Enjoy what you can...

I would not mind the aggressive marketing.  It probably does mean that she is looking for business. I have been contacted by agency girls when they went Indy or were just looking to make some extra money.  WTF, you can always say no

One led to a 4-hand massage with one of her friends, the other led to several more appointments. I would think that one would have to take this on a case-by-case basis.

BINGO

and a basis for being banned from TER.

Hey, I don't make the rules, but I do know what they are.

Was when a girl was stalking another girl's (similar in looks) reviewer history.  -__- lol