The second is to simply relax and enjoy yourself, as WJ said "it's not a competition"
Mainly because of the hobby, I have been with more 9's and 10's than any "average" guy could ever hope to be with in one lifetime. Guess what, they are all just human beings, with the same imperfections and insecurities as the rest of us.
Most every lady who does this for a living will appreciate a well groomed, considerate, "average" guy over some "wanna be stud" every day of the week.
The best way to overcome it is to "jump in the deep end of the pool", There are plenty of awesome ladies in Atlanta that will be more than happy to rock your world and won't care one bit it they come once, five times, or not at all, as long as you are respectful and don't "smell like ass", you'll be just fine. lol
I realize this is a "me" problem, but just wondering if anybody else has performance issues because they're intimidated by the beauty of the provider and her reputation as a lover. It's really become a problem for me the last year or so. It seems to really come into play when a provider is tall with a great body and legs forever. Oddly enough, I seem to perform better when the provider is NOT a 9 or 10. Then I read reviews ( I realize some are exaggerations) where the provider cums 3,4 or 5 times and know that I'll never be able to pull that off. Even though I'm the paying customer, I still want the lady to enjoy it.
Just wondering if anybody has had similar problems and if they were able to overcome it.
I have experienced it in the past but a couple of things helped me move past it. Talking to many providers, they are often just as anxious as we are, about wanting to please us. Remember this is just 2 people trying to do what comes naturally. Very important, if it happens, relax; let the lady know it is your stuff not a problem with her, unless of course it is a problem with her. Don't get upset. Just carry on and see if talking, touching and maybe some oral might help. There are many wonderful women in Atlanta that will take the time and care enough to try to help.
The other thing that has helped with this form of ED or Erectile Dysfunction was to find a medication or supplement that helped me. For me it is a product called Maxidus. If you want to pm me I will tell you more about it.
Lastly, I quit competing. Hell I am almost 60 why would I expect to be able to go like when I was 40. I am there for 1 reason, to enjoy myself and hopefully have the lady enjoy as well. I personally am not nor was I ever the "pound her through the headboard" type. I like romance and sensuality.
I also have discovered the world of toys and submissive sex. Submissive women are amazing. I'm not talking about slave type stuff or degrading, but instead a woman that I have developed a sense of comfort with and she feels safe enough to let me bind her and have my way. This is amazing stuff.
I am very new to it so don't look to me for advice. One more thing, don't give up, maybe the lady will work with you on moving past this issue. Trust me you are not alone. ED is wide spread and there are a variety of causes.
Good Luck!
Willy
...for what it is...!! Merry Christmas
Corey Edwards, Atlanta
Just wondering if anybody has had similar problems and if they were able to overcome it.
The first is, don't believe everything you read.
The second is to simply relax and enjoy yourself, as WJ said "it's not a competition"
Mainly because of the hobby, I have been with more 9's and 10's than any "average" guy could ever hope to be with in one lifetime. Guess what, they are all just human beings, with the same imperfections and insecurities as the rest of us.
Most every lady who does this for a living will appreciate a well groomed, considerate, "average" guy over some "wanna be stud" every day of the week.
The best way to overcome it is to "jump in the deep end of the pool", There are plenty of awesome ladies in Atlanta that will be more than happy to rock your world and won't care one bit it they come once, five times, or not at all, as long as you are respectful and don't "smell like ass", you'll be just fine. lol
The second is to simply relax and enjoy yourself, as WJ said "it's not a competition"
Mainly because of the hobby, I have been with more 9's and 10's than any "average" guy could ever hope to be with in one lifetime. Guess what, they are all just human beings, with the same imperfections and insecurities as the rest of us.
Most every lady who does this for a living will appreciate a well groomed, considerate, "average" guy over some "wanna be stud" every day of the week.
The best way to overcome it is to "jump in the deep end of the pool", There are plenty of awesome ladies in Atlanta that will be more than happy to rock your world and won't care one bit it they come once, five times, or not at all, as long as you are respectful and don't "smell like ass", you'll be just fine. lol
“Having wealth is one of the most disappointing things. It’s overrated. It’s not as good as average sex. Average sex is better than being a billionaire.” Ted Turner
seriously. ratings, reviews etc. can all be so misleading, even false sometimes.
To me, what matters is the feeling (however false) to want to mate with and wanting to be with the provider.
Does she bring out the man otherwise hidden inside me? Do I want to...'kinda' own her? Ok, I can't own anyone and I know it for sure, but that basic instinct is important. If the answer is yes, then its easy from there. After that, I let the 'Junior' drive it.
Best Wishes.
Just wondering if anybody has had similar problems and if they were able to overcome it.
Something tells me that she's a sure thing. Maybe it's the cash in the envelope that the hooker just pocketed.
The number one thing is relax. Make it what you want it to be. Take your time enjoy the journey and the company. The review says she came 3, 4, 5 times. (Yeah, Right!) Like GaGa said don't believe everything you read. That was the reviewers fantasy. It might have happened, it might not have. The lady you are with wants you to be happy. She will enjoy it if you do. There are many excellent providers out there that can give you exactly what you want. They do have anxious moments too. They want things to go well.
I recall a phrase someone used in his posts. It said, I'm only good for one pop, can we talk a little first.
It doesn't have to be like that "She came 4 times" review for you unless that is what you want. Don't do it like someone else would. Do it like you want to. This hobby is indeed the world of "Different strokes for different folks."