I got into a discussion with a regular this week about tattoos.  I have one, a Natty Tat that I got to commemorate my Dawgs National Championships.  It is easy to add to when we win another and is easy to hide or show off depending on what I want to do.  We really were not talking about my tattoo though, on Women what is your preference was the question posed to me.  In thinking about this I looked at who I have booked, who have I paid to spend time with me.  My demographc is 55 year old, white, southern, business owner (white collar), fairly prominent in atlanta (I see someone I know most times I go out), affluent.  I list those out to give an idea of myself not to brag or belittle others.  I have booked women with no tattoos all the way to her body is a canvas although the vast majority are just a few.  So I concluded that tattoos really had no relevance in whether I booked a lady or not, I was either attracted to her or not.

Where I noticed a difference was the type of booking.  The more heavily tattooed a lady was, the shorter the booking or more likely there was no public time.  If the tattoos were in a place that only a lover would see or could be easily covered then I was more likely to take a weekend trip or even a dinner date.  It was almost as common as age for example at 55 I would not take a 25 year old out on a dinner date, running into a friend with someone one younger than my kids may be difficult to explain.  Likewise a lady with hands, forearms, face, or other visible and memorable tattoos may lead to uncomfortable conversations.  

I'm all for a lady doing exactly as she wants with her body and her tattoos I just know in our twenties we sometimes make decisions that we don't always think through for our lifetime.  I remember a SNL Skit where the mom, think June Cleaver, is serving her family breakfast.  It looks like a husband in a suit going to work, two kids with their backpacks ready to go to school, mom has their lunches packed on the table, She turns to get something out of the cabinet and her shirt rides up revealing a tramp stamp that says "Juicy"... While Dad may agree, the kids looked a little troubled, lol.

So what are your thoughts surrounding tattoos?  

But unfortunately  the ladies love to get em even when i try to advise them not too

I don't hate them however in this lifestyle discretion is of utmost importance for everyone involved.  Many of these ladies are already the best looking women in a public setting which will draw attention... a very visible or large tattoo adds to that attention.  I'm already getting attention by having the hottest woman in the room I am not looking for added attention.  A week later someone could say remember that hot woman he was with and some people would say yes.... But if they say do you remember the hot woman with a tattoo sleeve all of them would say yes.

If a tattoo what the lady wants then that is fine just realize it may affect your business.  I don't discuss politics in public settings, I have clients that are far left and those that are far right and I am not going to alienate anyone.  That doesn't mean I don't have an opinion, just that I am not going to let my political opinions affect my income.  Providers have a business to run and they need to present that business in the best light, attracting the customers they are looking for.  Maybe that customer is a tattoo lover maybe not?

I agree with you 1000%, what is right or what works for one person is often not right for others... There is no set right way to be.  When I got out of college I went into a position as a stockbroker, working on straight commission.  My friends thought I was crazy to not have a salary, two of those guys now work for me.  

There are all types of providers and I am happy for you that you have carved out your niche.  It is great to be who we want to be, be successfeul, and be happy all at the same time.  Congratulations.

Well said my friend!

I just got tattooed yesterday it’s therapeutic. I am 45 years young with over 2 decades in this lovely industry. I think it’s odd you’re questioning one’s ability to contort in society with a body that has tattoos. Dinner dates I thrive on and all my friends love my sexy ink.  

White collar corporates are tattooed they just have to cover themselves. I have the best job in the World. I am a single Super Mama, head of my household, bread winner & love all my tattoos! As a woman who hustles by any means being self employed means not having to live an orthodox lifestyle. I have many jobs this is my hobby too dear it’s thrilling.  

😁 Mrs Happy

I don't always hate em honey has sum nice ones

I did not question anyones ability to do anything... If you read above you will see that I believe there is something for everyone and that I agree with that..  Also that I have continued to see companions with tattoos.  MY personal preference is no tattoos, that is not a disparaging remark about you or any other person, it is simply my preference.  Obviously I hit a nerve to get your response, I apologize if you feel triggered.