My VIP membership expired the day before yesterday and then today I got a PM.

Ive got messages that I cant check and its killing me! My bank will not approve a subscription on my debit card and I cant bring myself to call the girl that helps me and tell her what I need help with!  

But thats thw reason my # and  email is listed

I've had that happen. They probably decline it because the credit card approval is off shore. You can call the bank and ask them to temporarily relax that restriction for like 12-24 hours.  That's if you're comfortable with that from a security standpoint. There's always the ole pay by MO, but that takes 7-10 days.