just like I don't ?
I would like to make an appointment for 1 hour and then see from there how it goes.
It may be none, it may be 30 minutes, it may be 1 hour or 2...I don't know, and I don't want to it to be time bound except for the minimum 1 hour limit.
I feel sad when I just start enjoying and the provider has to leave. Not her fault  of course.
So posting here to try my luck if there is anyone as unplanned as I am.
Physical Requirement: at least 5'7" tall. Hair below shoulders.
Thank you in advance.

so why don't you pick a provider and ask for a 1hr date, let her know your plans are a little flexible and ask if she might be able to extend the time frame in case you want to add more time.  Keep in mind, you need to gift your lady properly for the time you visit or ask her to extend to.  This is what it is, and we are in effect escorts being paid for our time.  

Your wording suggests, though I am hoping it is in fact just the wording and not your actual thoughts, that a lady should come visit and stay as long as you want for a 1hr fee.  As I said, if that is what you are hinting at you are unlikely to get any takers, as you get what you gift for not more and not less.

Maybe a little clarification in in order?  

LOL, see what happens when I get bored and look at other boards?  I am going to bed!!  Good night all, Sage

I doubt if there are many people that have the same perception as you do.
Still, it wouldn't hurt to clarify that the lady will be paid for all her time.
I am not asking to put 2 or 3 hours and charge only for one.
What I can't commit is how much time in total I am going to spend with the lady.

I can see now where both you and Sage are coming from.

Finding someone new to you who is willing to set aside 2-3 hours for 1 hour of definite pay but possibly 1-2 more hours of pay... that's gonna be tricky to find, and so I understand your original post now. Your ATF might be able to help better in this regard.

Most providers (I imagine) would simply schedule 2 visits that day and have a sure thing rather than take a chance on a newbie No Show, flakes out, Family Emergency, Car Accident, Traffic on 400, whatever the reason. She still has clients and is working. Any service oriented business has to have contingency plans  for the reasons listed before.

This has happened a few times (to others mainly but myself included) since I've been on TER.  A Perfect Storm of available funds and energy, you both have had the extra time, with a bit of chemistry and spontaneity. I have yet to read of a lady who plans such a visit (but anything is possible).

Otherwise, find a way to commit to the time. Try some 90 mins or 2 hour visits in addition to 1 hour visits. I prefer 90-120 mins myself.

NO, you have to reserve our time.  There has to be a start time and end time established before the meeting begins because the lady could potentially turn down other gents for your "maybe" 1-4 hour meeting?  

For example:
If you schedule 1 hour, you pay for 1 hour.
If you schedule 2 hours and you have to leave early, you still must pay for the 2 hours because the lady has set that time aside specifically for you and she can't reserve a babysitter for 2 hours to have you flake out after 1 hour and only reimburse her for 1 hour after you reserved 2 hours and she has paid a babysitter for 2 hours.  No service would allow you to abuse their time like that and you shouldn't ask the ladies to either.  

Also, if she had another gent interested in a 1 hour that same afternoon, she potentially turned down other business to reserve your "maybe" time.  NO NO NO

This is one of the worst kinds of client behaviour.  No consideration for our time and the fact that this is our livelihood and your hobby.  

Get with the program or take up golf.  

When you call just ask me for whos open... If they have nothing booked for the next 2/3 hrs why not give it a try... Of course its all in the timing... Sometimes it will work.. Then sometimes not but I'm happy to try

tyvm,P.T.

Talk about yourself, not others.
Oh, so its livelihood for you !!! I did not know that. Thanks for letting know.
Fortunately or unfortunately, your profession is tied to making other people feel "relaxed".
It is an art to make your livelihood by catering to someone's fantasy.
An art that you seem to know nothing about. All you know is "payment", "client" and your timed meter.

You can't play my way? Sure, don't bother. However, don't speak on behalf of others.
If it suits somebody they will reply. If nobody replies... well, may be I'll change my ways.
Where is the need for this lecture?

The likelihood of your desired flexibility will be dependent on time of day.  Prime time hours, no chance in hell, off hours or low volume days, much more likely.

Ladies you have experience with, are safer bets than first visits.

You are asking for high service loyalty, in call vs outcall and indi vs agency will not matter.  What matters is hou regular you are with them and how much they enjoy your company.

Make up your mind early.  People have schedules.  Just like you need to reject a lady in first 5-10 minutes, you should decde on extension request likelihood early as well.  

Be prepared to pay for full time scheduled, even if you end early.  Several ladies, if you're a regular, will return whole hour unused payments, they want you to return.  But if your first date, you will pay 90% of the time.  Ladies that flex with you, need to become your primary provider, it's about give and get.

You have more flex from a two hour date than single hour.  Make two hour date your standard.  It will meet 90% of the desires you are trying to address and you will find many ladies that will know this and make allowances in there schedules.

You should explore a limited pool of ladies that offer "time free" dates.  These dates will run between 8 and 10 bills, typically cap at official max of 4 hours, but I have had a couple end up being longer because we fell asleep.  Generally you get a great break on hourly rate and lady gets much simpler evening plan.  These are "big trust" dates on both sides but you can have amazing "wow dates"  when clock is totally removed.  I know three ladies that offer this, but cannot share names, as it is NOT generally available, they will send you pm if they want to offer.

Try the time free session or standardize on two hour schedule.  This will meet mostbof your needs

Not gonna get into whether it is bad business practices, rude or makes for a bad client.  

But, suppose you do get a taker for this, "hey please leave a couple of extra hours open so should we hit it off, I can extend for more time proposition."  Then you find that you don't want to extend your time after an hour - a white lie that you have to be somewhere else to be won't work as an honorable excuse to get it short, so how do you intend to tell the lady you do not wish to extend the session without really being rude?   For that matter, how would you feel if the lady did not extend when you wanted them to extend - would you believe they weren't feeling the chemistry or that they lied and booked another appointment?  

Maybe just me, but I would find this quite the awkward situation.   It would be out of character for me to say, "sorry sweetie but this just ain't working - I'm done, get your ass out."  

Of course, apparently some ladies think I am just too darn nice a guy to get nasty with so offering to extend is probably not in my future in any event. Then again, maybe they have seen my EKG and doubt I could handle more time.  (And they would probably be right too.)

is if a provider has nothing going on after a date extending is usually ok as long as he is ready to pony up and asks her.

Say you see this guy, he is really nice and you have nothing but errands to run after(we all have shit going on all the time, but hey some things non-provider related can be rearranged easily enough) and he asks you if you have anything going on after and could he add some time to your date.  Would you turn him down simply because he didn't book the 2hrs in advance, or would you roll with it postpone running to the cleaners, going to the gym, doing your grocery shopping and extend your time with him?  I know what I would do but that is just me.  If I have the time and they are willing to gift properly I am good to continue on.  I don't see that as rude or disrespectful, just as he should not see it as rude or disrespectful if you do indeed get another booking after him and are unable to extend because he only booked 1hr in advance.  It is what it is and each person can handle it it the way they see fit.

It is interesting though should he mention possible extension in advance but chooses not to do it it could prove as many here state to be a very awkward time for both parties involved.  I mean can you see it, Provider "So you mention you might want to stay a little longer???"  Hanging in air as he thinks of what to say "Not this time, I am kinda feeling a little tired now that you have worn me out, maybe next time?"  LOL, we all know what that means, THANKS BUT NO THANKS....  LOL

Or, what if she feels you are not well matched....  Guest "So, I would really like to spend another hour with you because the 1st one was just so hot..."  Provider "I know we discussed extending but I really just don't think I can extend this visit, let me tell you about some of my friends you might like..."  Again, we know what this mean, THANKS BUT NO THANKS....  LOL AGAIN

The only issue with mentioning it in advance is that 1 or both of you could end up with hurt feelings after depending.  Personally I would do on a case by case and only ask ladies I had taken a liking to at the end of the session if she was able to extend for added $.  In that case it eliminates the hurt either way, you have no idea if she has something going on after so if she can't she can't and if you do not want the added time there isn't the thick air of wondering coming from the provider.

That is just me though.  I need to stop reading this board and go back to mine now.  TTFN, Sage

I tried exactly that with who I thought was on course to be my ATF, but she declined.
I adored her, but she can't. Instead, she got mad at me for not being able to commit. lol
Probably she's one of those aliases, venting it out on me.

See, this is the reason I started with a disclaimer: "unplanned".
My offer is apologetic in tone, and with good reason.

"Period", "Period"....this way of writing appears a bit familiar....Could you be someone I met in the past?
Sour apples, huh?

I have no need to hide behind and alisa. This isnt what you contacted me about, maybe if you had approached me with this, I could have seen where you were coming from and we could have talked about that. You asked for something completely different.

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Ask you lawyer or your accountant to 'reserve" 2-3 hours of their time for you but you will only be able to reimburse for 1 hour if that's all you need and see how far you get.  

I have no idea why the fact that this is our livelihood is a newsflash to you.  And my gentleman clients who don't waste my time and cause me to loose money playing games are always relaxed and well pleased.  I have all positive reviews because I know how to weed out the idiots who think I'm going to give them 3 hours and get paid for 1.  

When I am respected, my clients are well respected and leave happy.  When I or my systers are disrespected watch your balls.

And don't waste your time PM'ing me and asking for my provider name!  What a laugh!

I am not a regular poster although I am an experienced Atlanta hobbyist. This post and the responses have compelled me to share my opinion. I have always followed a couple of basic rules and they have served me well. I have met many of wonderful ladies and some of which have become good friends. They are not complicated. Rule #1: The rules are the rules. They should be respected and followed. A gentleman never questions the rules. Rule #2: Always be a gentleman. Never question a lady, her integrity or rules. These wonderful ladies risk much and deserve our cooperation in order to ensure their safety and ours. To do otherwise is rude and disrespectful and not the behavior of a gentleman.

You have every right to express your opinion but be prepared for the responses. You do not have the right as a gentleman to question a lady. To do so is rude. You sir were rude and not a gentleman. You should apologize to these wonderful ladies.

to payback you in the same currency and you can do nothing about it.
So feel miserable.
Respect ?  And you expect it even as you speak with a foul mouth?
Respect is for those who display "class" act. At least 2 of those ladies had to join this stupid rant of yours.
I feel embarrassed that because of me they felt compelled to fight against your filth.
That is our mutual respect for each other that a street performer like you can never even dream of.

I can't respect you and your flock for the street style drama you create.
It is because of women like you that people equate escorts with prostitutes. You talk like one.

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