I could use some help on where to go from here.  

I have not yet had the chance to be a 'friend' yet so I tried to contact an independent but go no response (no biggie, I understand).  I made a previous post about her on this board and got some great responses. Based on that I tried to contact an agency.  Spoke to a nice lady but explained I am self-employed with no references.  She declined to assist me (which I completely understand).

I tried to look through the VIP reviews for a petite provider and found about seven or so but they all have about the same type of requirements.  I have to work for a well known company and risk giving that info or have to have done this before with people willing to give references.  

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Need to keep looking or maybe be a little more flexible about who you spend your first encounter with. There are newbie friendly providers out there but to find one who is exactly what you're after might just take more time to find.

I have 90+ reviews and several white listing and ladies willing to give references and in new cities and with some indies I am a person non gratis.  Hang in there.

You might want to try a screening group like rs2000 or p411.  You go thru this once and many ladies will rely on your passcode, but many will not.

I would try one of three or four agencies on this board.  You will need to provide info, but of the ones I am thinking about, once u prove valid they will reference you

Keep trying, but you are going to have to share your real data with a few to get started otherwise no one will see you

great advice.However most guys in Atlanta dont use roomservice.which is really frustrating as a provider.I love rs2k its awesome in the midwest.p411 is ok.date check is fine also.dont give up.goodluck and kisses

Thank you for the advice.  I did get some PMs.  At least one is close to ideal and from her reviews I would have a great time.

With that said, if I do go see her (an independent) and post a review would that make things considerably easier to get future providers to see me?

Thanks for the advice.  I appreciate it.

Thank you both.  

I didn't know what RS2000 meant so I appreciate you explaining it for me.  I will look into them both.

agrees to serve as your reference, things could become easier.

Your posting a review is irrelevant when it comes to "making things considerably easier".

P411 is a great idea (or one of the other services, I'm just no familiar with them).  Once you get plugged into something like that you should find things getting easier for you.  That was the route I took, started with P411.

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Not sure if I can name names here so I won't but there was a very nice lady who took me under her wing and made my first time with a provider very special.  

She really went above and beyond to make my experience one I will truly never forget and I will always be grateful.  One thing is for sure...I am hooked on this hobby.  

Thank you Addison.  I had already left for work before I read your message and I will keep your offer in mind as I look for future adventures.