Can we have some fun?

Many who know me recall that I was once quite active on the London/Europe hobby scene. There I did a lot of overnights. In fact, I once wrote an article on what makes for a good overnight booking.

The fun would be to the gang here. Gentlemen, have you ever do one? Did you like it? If not, have you considered it?  Ladies, you are most welcome to chime in as well?

Lets have some fun and perhaps we all learn something to. To me that is what this board is about.

I may chime in with my prior experiences if the topic gets established.

I have done multiple overnights and extended bookings and I absolutely love them! I think they provide a more natural flow of the experience and therefore make it even more enjoyable for everyone involved. Just my personal opinion.

breeds ontempt....or at least boredom....or something.
ymm

I have had a few over the years, the best ones are the unintentional ones.....You know, she came over for an outcall and stayed for breakfast because we fell asleep cuddled up. Those only happen after there is a very good connection.

Ok, more like hundreds, but most of them were unplanned. I think my longest "paid date" was a couple of days, but I've gone on a lot of unpaid trips with hookers lasting as long as ten days.  

I hate to admit this, but I think two days is about my limit today. Any more "togetherness" is just too much of a good thing. I think I have been single for too many years and after a couple of days it's like "don't you have someplace to be?" I just don't want another human being constantly around at this stage of my life.  

OTOH, I love to spend the entire night with a lady. I like sleeping with a woman, I like morning sex, What's not to like? I will say that most of the time, unless we are going back to sleep, after morning sex I would just as soon she go somewhere and leave me alone.

I do probably one overnight a week.  I love having dinner and fucking all night. I also do many multiple days often too. I usually fly outside of Atlanta for this for some reason but they are really fun. I do more 4hr dinner dates than anything. With the dinner dates and the overnights I provide dinner and breakfast at my place. The guys love arriving and I'm ready and food is on the table, then we fuck like there is no tomorrow lol
don't get me wrong though,  I still enjoy the hour rendezvous but I do more extended engagements than anything
great topic LDS
Hugs and kisses
TL

I have had overnights but they were with special providers. There has to be the right "chemistry".  Sex-sex- sleep-sex-sleep-sex-sleep- sex-sex. Makes for a great overnight.

With a right person i loved

I've considered, and had a couple conversations about overnights.  I havent done one, comes down to availability and realistically, expense.  I wouldnt mind seeing about overnight specials and trying one someday, I already know a few I'd love to experience that with.....

I thought that was the biggest waste of money. But I have had a couple that were fantastic. Play most of the night then breakfast in bed. Cheers.

I've thoroughly enjoyed all the ones I've had, but like others have said, they all happened by chance because we hit it off so much.  

I had one in Phoenix with an incredible lady who, when she found out I had never been to Arizona, became my personal tour guide for a couple of days.  Just incredible, caught a spring training game, had an incredible Mexican meal at a little hole in the wall , and got multiple sessions of road head all the way to Sedona & back.  I was worn out but it was invrefible couple of days!

I took one local lady to Anaheim with me for just the cost of a plane ticket and spent several days sightseeing & screwing - just WO

I'm not going to detail it here, as this client is not on TER and strongly values privacy. It was fantastic though, as TL and others have stated overnights are kind of a slumber party/fuckfest hybrid. I love the organic pacing the extra time affords, which is why multi hour dates are my favorite: the more time on the clock, the less the clock impacts the dynamics of the date. I had a five hour last night, so not an overnight, but all that time meant we were able to have amazing conversation, enjoy a nice meal, and have plenty of intimacy. By intimacy I don't just mean sex (all though having plenty of time to devote to that activity is awesome), I mean cuddling, caressing, and pillow talk. I recommend them to everyone who has the time and budget.  

But um, if budget is a concern, my overnights are very nicely priced under my current prebooking special. You can book it for any time before New Years Getting away from the self promotion, I do recommend prebooking and researching the lady throughly to ensure proper planning and chemistry. As noted on this thread, there are plenty of lovely ladies in Atlanta to choose from!

Xoxoxo,
Ava

For me, overnights give me a chance to really go deep and get to underlying desires, both mine and yours. The safer and more treasured I feel, the more I open to you. Spontaneity is nearly impossible in the one hour session. Fucking in the front seat of a Porsche, blow jobs on the upper deck of a boat, a three way in a limo are some of the impromptu things that have happened on an extended date. I'm a morning person, so morning sex is a big YES!!!! In the "spoon" position please.

I always like having the time to truly build chemistry.  It makes everything so much more intense and meaningful.  It gives me more time to really let down my hair and show how provocatively natured I really am.  Overnights ROCK!!!

I have had four thus far and all have been fantastic, yet very different experiences..  

The first I ever did was more of a date night with concert/dinner/and then overnight fun.  It was exactly what we had agreed too and we both had a blast.  The 2nd one was a non stop fun fest with no sleep at all throughout the night as she insisted.  Who was I to complain and I happened to be up for the challenge.  The third one really wasn't planned, it just happened as the chemistry was unreal.  

The most recent one... I literally blew her away with the preparation for the evening and it was a  complete surprise..  She had no idea it was coming until she walked into the room.... She loves the "romance" and little things or attention to detail involved in our evening.  They were things we had discussed in previous meetings that really get her turned on.   Ladies..   Sometimes, we guys do actually listen : ) ..  It was repaid tenfold throughout the evening and well into the morning though that wasn't my reason for doing it.  I simply enjoyed seeing her eyes completely light up with surprise...  

Inexpensive.. No they are not but I'm leaning towards more of the overnights and less of the "short" term visits.  Obviously this works best with someone you know well and you have to have those visits before making the decision for the overnight.   I haven't pulled the trigger on a long weekend type of thing yet, but I think that will definitely be in my future with the appropriate young lady or my current regular...  

I don't always hobby, but when I do, I damn sure enjoy it !!

Seriously, you sound super sweet and thoughtful. It's incredibly cool that you deliberately tailored your latest experience to your lady friend's tastes. I think that's a part of the girlfriend experience that's often overlooked: trying to fulfill your partner's needs and desires often fulfills a need of yours. And it sounds like a beautiful way to show how much you value your time with her and the role she plays in your life. I think that's just lovely, and I'm glad your experiences are living up to your expectations!

When I was younger and not attached legally, I did a few overnights. Thing is they were all with one particular provider who is long retired. Each night was special as she would make the drive up to the foothills and we'd go out as a date.  

She'd get the gawkers' gazes. I got the envious looks. Since I was always chivalrous and respectful so people must have thought that my manners made up for my lack of pretty much everything else. She'd use her thick Russian accent to politely ask me "(Kosh) Darling, could you be so kind..." and "Thank you, my lover" loud enough to cause a scene each time.  

Dinner and a movie, bowling, whatever, those were almost 'real dates' except few real dates ended with such fantastic festivities - and breakfast!

As others have commented, it is a nice change of pace to allow the orgasmic be more organic with extended time. The connection can be awesome but alas, it's a bit of a dream.  

Now overnights would be a hard thing to explain to the SO. I did do one overnight (outcall to my hotel) a few years back at a conference but it was not the same. I was from out of town and it was a first meeting, which was just 'ok'.  

I would not recommend overnights without prior experiences.  

ga_kosh

Thank you..  To me, that's part of the beauty of the repeat visits with someone you are fortunate enough to have some chemistry beyond the basic.  No not the "I've fallen" or the "Has she fallen" thread....  I'm a little smarter than that, but the fun and fantasy are a part of the reason for partaking in this world.  

Some of it is luck but I like to think some of it is the result of this excellent vehicle for doing the research...  Shameless free plug for TER and having VIP by the way..  

Just remember when you get cold or a little chilly...   Friction generates heat !!!

With both of you THIS.... I COULDN'T AGREE MORE! It Is all in the chemistry, research and connecting
nuff said  
Hey, you 2 want to meet up for drinks?  Lol
Hugs and kisses
TL

That would be a hell to the yes from my perspective starting with some scotch or bourbon at the appropriate live jazz club just to help set the mood.  Then recorded jazz later : ) ..     Unfortunately, I don't actually live in the ATL so we'll have to see when my next work, I mean pleasure, trip brings me down the hill in that direction...  

Some days you're the pigeon, some days you're the statue ..

OverNights and extended stays have always been my favorite there so much more fun for both party's I think

Extended stays and overnights are much more  fun fun fun
Gives you more time to experiment & experience ;preferred lol