Guys, help, are you ever attracted to a very beautiful, soo sexy young lady that you feel intimidated?   Am I becoming too old to do this anymore?  

There is this one especially sexy, beautiful, articulated and great conversation that I am feeling that I could not perform.  Every time I see her and talk to her at the M&G's, I tell her that I really want to see her. BUT, I just can't seem to pull the trigger. I really think I am actually intimidated by her and afraid that I would not make her happy, or shall I say I may be embarrassed that I would not be able to "get up".  

Is this just me, am I too attracted to her that I should not see her, or is it just I am too old and do not want to be embarrassed? Is it the young age that is stopping me?? Hell I don't know.  

Just wondering if any of you feel that way or similar.  

JimmyPW    (well maybe the PW is now showing)

daughter, or grand daughter, are not a problem; but, when they're young enough to be my great grand daughter, I'm guessing I'm going to feel the same way!  One thing to remember, though, is you probably know more about the oral arts than she's ever experienced, so consider playing that as your strong suite.  And be sure her profile says she takes cim and swallows; that's always a good way to snatch victory from the jaws of defeat!

There's one in particular I saw several years ago. In my mind, the perfect body type. 5'11, flat stomach, great legs, beautiful face, big-natural (that's not a biggie with me, but they were natural) breasts, great ass. No tattoos.  
She was great, but I pretty much choked. We've communicated a few times since. As much as I'd love to see her, so afraid it would end in frustration again.

I seem to perform better with the more mature providers nearer my age. Just a fact of life I guess . But those young hard bellied young ladies are so damn tempting.

I realized that there was a reason for me not pulling the trigger. I'll explain.

We all have voices in our heads. Ok, maybe it's just me, but bear with me her. Sometimes be the voice will appear in the forms of the Blue Angle on my right shoulder and the Red Devil on my left, like I remember seeing in older cartoons when the protagonist has to make an uncomfortable decision (like Tom deciding to 'save' Jerry just so he can try to eat him later). Other times, it's almost like Alec Guinness as Obi-Wan Kenobi telling me to 'let go. trust your feelings.' or the robot from Lost in Space saying "Danger! Danger!" Those voices are there for a Reason. It's called Experience. Experience is that part of Life we survive and learn from.

If you are having doubts about someone you desire Jimmy, search your feelings and find out why you - of all people - would doubt yourself.

In recent years, I have not met a woman so devastatingly beautiful that I could not get aroused. Especially if I have had great conversations with her. If I have a doubt about seeing her and sharing mutual pleasures, it's usually a case of finding out later she had a drug habit, suicidal tendencies, a murderous boyfriend, etc. Like many men, sometimes I'm attracted to Damsel in Distress and wanna be her hero who gets the girl... but there's big differences between Bad Luck and Bad Choices.

When I listen, my Voices will tell me which one she actually is. Most of the time my voices are yelling "Captain, we need more fundage!" as the choice is not "all of the above". But I digress.

Trust your gut Jimmy, It has served you well so far and will continue to do so. (By reputation) You've sexed up many a fine skank over the years (to quote Leon Phelps). There's a reason you haven't pulled the trigger with this one, you just have to figure out.  It's not her over-abundant beauty or her overly good demeanor that's setting you aback.

Just another guy trying to live Life without regrets,
ga_kosh

P.S. - please send your check for "5 cents" to the address below.  

Someone was telling a tail that beet juice will make the vitamin V work better.
Never heard of such before but am going to load up on beet juice.   Lol.   At my age I will try anything.     Hope it's not like garlic and I smell like a beet when I start to sweat.

END OF MESSAGE

Book her for a bday session. She is mistress. Lots of spanking.  
Good luck and make sure to let us know how it goes.  
Lol

Imagine if we obsessed about all the things we loved about ourselves....

however.  The advantage in being an old fart is that you know every way in the world to make sure that she has a REALLY good time.  And you also know all of the ways that she can help you have one.  (And that's without even getting any toys involved!)  My belief is that having that attitude going in makes you relax and not stress about outcomes.  And that, in turn, pretty much eliminates any "getting up" issues.  When talking about aging and sex, my doctor likes to say that the brain is the primary sex organ, and that drives everything else.  I've found that to be very true.

I am pathetic on this ... even with my regulars I get that way some times - there are many reasons of course .. with new lady obvious reasons, with familiar ladies keeping up and improving performance etc.

One thing is for sure - it is self inflicted; only thing that helps is controlling one's own mind, expectations etc. Now dont get on my case for what I am going to say - meditation helps to calm the mind, and that helps everything else.

In the immediate term, take anything that calms you - alcohol, pills whatever ...

Go for it!!!!

Gentle

You mean wait till August for my birthday???  I DUNNA NO    LOL LOL

you won't regret it...

I just saw one of the lovely ladies from the M & G I had been drooling over for a while.

and it was Great !

Folks,

I'm not sure about INTIMIDATION, But I do get "Excited" Sometimes.
The truth is, when a women moves me that way its a Good Thing.
Sometimes the build up before the meeting is FUNNN.

For Example:

I met Caylee Cayhill, my favorite  ATF's about 8 years ago.
I remember the first time we met, she wiggled out of her snug jeans, parading her Wonderful Cup Cakes, and I almost fell off the bed.
 Excited !!

Secondly,

Ginger Taylor has the most Amazing Ta Ta's I have ever seen in person.
This young lady takes RUSSIAN to a whole new level with her Big Eyes and SEXY Demeanor.
Excited !!

 
Last,

Most Recent Review clip : Cameron Jay

" Non-Vip :

 This lady reminds me of the Rick Springfield Song " I Get Excited "  
 Because that's exactly what happened when I saw her.  
 If your a true "Ass Man" Don't miss one of Atlanta's most Beautiful Bottoms, In my humble opinion.  

 Vip : Yes, I will repeat !! "
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Note :  

Like Nike Says, "Just DO IT"

I look forward to the Next Gem !!!!!

Cheers,
punter4

...to face it directly!

Give this young lady a call, set up a date, and go for it!

The great JimmyPW will prevail

no,no,no,no
Make it your birthday with this nymph every day.  lol

I used to be "intimidated" by extreme age difference as in, "She's young enough to be your daughter" or, "How into it will this young beauty be in an old fart like you? It must be like being with daddy"
My rationale is that she's someone else's daughter that chooses this profession, and she is freakin hot, so I'm going for it! At least that's how it sometimes goes. In the end, you may be surprised that the young lady has an open mind, is extremely turned on by your gentlemanly manner and well developed skills. If that's the case, it's awesome but if she isn't in to older men, and it shows from the greeting, that lack of connection can cause "equipment" problems, I must admit.
I have recently had the pleasure of seeing a couple of much younger beauties and was pleasantly surprised by the experiences. Had I let age intimidation get in the way, I would have missed out.
You've already had the chance to see and interact with her at M&G's so if connection is important to you, you already have some sense if it's there or not. Good luck!

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I've always found if we both connect on something more than a superficial level, are in tune with each others erotic rhythms, pace ourselves accordingly, there's no such thing as an age difference. I agree with the other folks here that have pointed out an older gent can teach a young woman a thing or two. Provided the provider has an open mind and can go beyond their preconceived notions of what makes all guys happy.

Never had an issue in this area, but then again I'm very selective.