...a lot.  just say (if you have to) that you like variety.  But she shouldn't put you in that set of circumstances.  Oh, well....

you give a provider a couple of references and one of those send you an email wanting to know why you want to see somebody else ?

What's a nice way of saying you want to see somebody younger or somebody that takes better care of herself ?

that would be my approach as well -  it helps that variety is truly important to me!!

That's why I don't give personAl info anymore.

Its funny how providers need references (which I understand) but then most wont reply when they are asked to give a references. Infact I got dropped from one because I gave out her name as a references. ??????

Love that wit Bella

No one's ego hurt. We are all here for a reason and must respect each other's needs.

That most of your posts are completely negative.  You dont like tattoos, you want a special discount because you cant last long enough for a full hour, half ass jokes on a money back guarantee, a passive aggressive means of letting a provider know you are angry about a reference situation.  I think it is only logical to deduce that your attitude here probably transcends to outside as well.  Be a little more pleasant, open minded, considerate, and straightforward and you may not have such a difficult time with references or finding something that accommodates your tastes and needs.

Just how far back did you go to read my posts ? I'm flattered. Thanks !

..can change that. Where I'm from, they say, "Your mouth--your enemy."

A provider that I've seen before is upset because I want to see somebody else ????? So that mean I have a bad attitude and nobody wants to see me ?

How are your comprehension skills ?

Crawl back in your hole.

I wholeheartedly agree with bcatl.  I have not followed every posting of 2ndBaseman (I have a life that doesn't include 2ndBaseman in it), but what I recall of seeing his name from time to time is this:  I usually agree with most of the basic premise of his postings as they start out.  However, at some point his postings  take a turn, taking on a dismissive tone, an arrogant attitude, often rude and insulting for no conceivable reason whatsoever.  (The phrase "stuck on stupid" comes to mind.)  And I have also found that the more he speaks, the more you start to see the real side of him, and it's not pretty.  As I said before, he starts to show his true colors.  I would venture to guess that whatever problems he thinks exist emanate from himself.

It's called a search. It took all of 30 seconds to do (not to mention most were on this page or the next). Nice way to avoid the issue though.

I appreciate the effort of you to "search" my posts.

I, on the other hand, give less than a damn what you've posted before.

I'm just curious as to what would you make you search....interesting.

The "issue" was that a provider I used for a reference emailed me asking why I wasn't seeing her again. I guess my reputation with her isn't too bad. I've got it resolved now and the appointment is set. Thanks for your concern, loser.