Great clarification. Yes I was thinking of someone you have shared a lot of time with and the two of you really like eachother.
My bestie of over 10 years loves me unconditionally & it is the greatest feeling ever. We have evolved from being, so much more, than when we first met & it just keeps getting better. I would never have thought this could be possible in this industry. I feel truly blessed. I have another friend that I only saw one time several years ago, but he sends me gifts often & we communicate on a regular basis. I love my real friends! I am grateful to have people who truly care about lil old me!
Well, after 10+ years in the hobby, I can't believe I let myself get in this deep. My current ATF is a complete sweetheart who treats me like a king. I've only been seeing her for a few months, but the weekly visits just get better every time. I know, I know, I am one of many, but for the first time ever, this one has managed to make me put my guard down. I even get frustrated by the fact that she does not charge half of what she should in comparison to other providers. She is young, sweet, and absolutely gorgeous. And yet, from day one, she has never checked or asked for a specific donation amount ever for her incredible FS. I can admit that I am all messed up. Now I have to figure my way out haha. I stumbled upon this thread and just had to get this off my chest.
Nice comments, glad you found her. Any chance uou want to share her name? If not, I would understand
I saw a lady for over 10 years and it was fantastic having that kind of relationship!!
I definitely would not share her name, but I am in the process of pulling back quite a bit on scheduling with her, to slowly wean myself back into reality before I get too far gone.
I completely understand, I never wrote a review or would tell anybody about the lady I was "in love with" and saw for over ten years. She would tell me the best reviews are the ones that are never written. Maybe its the same for you, but she is so special to me it would be like locker room talk about my wife that I loved and respected, it just does not feel right.
I hope the two of you can enjoy your relationship for a long time!
It happens at the end of the day we are humans with feelings lol.. I have had friends fall for me some were red flags I had to stop seeing and others weaned themselves off of me. Although, it makes me sad when I have a great connection with someone and they have to stop seeing me I completely understand as well and respect it. But, that's why I usually recommend my friends to have a rotation of a few ladies to rotate with.
For the longest time the friend I saw for over 10 years and I kept a great balance. We were great friends within the boundaries of a professional relationship. We shared details of our real lives and ultimately would both say "I love you" when we said goodbye. We both understood that was meant as real close friends.
But then I "fell in love with her" not just as friends. I freaked out and stopped seeing her because I thought it was the best thing to do. This was right when COVID started. Now I wish I had not done that, I really miss my friend.
I know this same thing happens in civilian life, because as you said "we are humans with feelings "
Whether we want to admit it or not, it happens to most of us. Particularly if you stay in this long enough. It's almost impossible to completely shut down your emotions when you have, what you believe is a great connection with another human being. In a lot of instances, the reason you're purchasing the service is because you are missing something in the traditional or current relationship. While it may be physical, typically it's physical and emotional. For me, the key is self-management and placing guard rails on your feelings, actions, and expectations. You as the purchaser of a service have a responsibility to self manage your emotions and actions. While you want the experience to seem natural and non-transactional, you must also keep in mind that you're paying for the illusion of intimacy without the strings, challenges, and baggage that traditional relationships typically bring. However, I believe it is important to always be decent, kind, and respectful to the lady that is providing the service. Just my two cents worth.
They fall in love with me Every Time
Why wouldn’t they? ❣️
